09/02/2026
I didn’t lose myself. I gave myself away.
Piece by piece.
Yes by yes.
Sacrifice by sacrifice.
I built my life around being needed—the fixer, the giver, the strong one, the one everybody could count on.
Until I looked in the mirror and barely recognized ME.
So at 50, I’m starting over.
2026 has stripped away safety nets, forced major changes and made me face one of my biggest fears:
Standing on my own and choosing ME.
And here’s what I’m learning…
Healing isn’t always love, light and pretty affirmations.
Sometimes healing is uncomfortable as hell.
It’s boundaries.
It’s saying NO.
It’s sitting with your shadows.
It’s letting doors close.
It’s realizing you don’t have to be needed to know that you MATTER.
I’m not trying to find the old me anymore.
I’m building the woman I never had the chance to become because I was too busy being everything for everybody else.
And maybe you are too.
If you’ve been pouring into everybody except yourself and you’re finally ready to figure out who YOU are underneath all those roles…
DM me “CHOOSE ME.”
Maybe it’s time to stop abandoning yourself and start rebuilding a life that actually belongs to you. ❤️