09/01/2026
The Irish Remembered
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🗣️ One of the plainest words in English for being annoyed came out of Irish, and to begin with it meant being deafened.
Bother. It surfaces in English writing in the early eighteenth century and, tellingly, nearly every one of the earliest writers using it was Irish born. The likely source is bodhar (BOW-er, the first part rhyming with cow), meaning deaf, and bodhraim (BOW-rim), to deafen. To bother somebody was to talk at them until they could not hear any more. 👂
That is a far better word than the one we ended up with. Modern bother is mild and vague. The Irish original is a precise complaint about noise, and anybody who has ever been cornered at a wake by a great talker knows the sensation exactly. 🤐
The same root sits inside bodhrán (BOW-rawn), the drum. A skin pulled tight, and a name that means deaf. Whether the drum is called after the sound it makes or after what it does to the people in the room is a question that will keep an argument going all night. ☘️
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