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April 27, 2026
Q&A: 20-year hospice volunteer shares her insights
By Nick Houser
(SACRAMENTO)
April is National Volunteer Month, which is an opportunity for UC Davis Hospice to recognize the impact of one of its longest-tenured volunteers, Mary Janicki.
To honor Janicki’s 20 years of volunteer service, Public Affairs and Marketing asked her about her time with the program.
After beginning in July of 2006, here are Janicki’s reflections:
What made you want to become a hospice volunteer?
The volunteer spirit runs in my family line. I wanted to pay it forward for the wonderful hospice care my father received before his passing. Also, when my mother passed away in early 2006, my siblings tended to her in Wisconsin, so I missed out on frequent visits due to distance. I immediately applied for hospice volunteer training. This service fulfills a longing to serve when I am distanced from family.
What is your inspiration for continuing to serve 20 years and counting?
The people who I serve and the people who I serve with are my inspirations. Being welcomed into the home is such a personal opportunity. Some duties have changed over the years. I used my photography skills for veterans’ recognition and remembrance events, which were very special. Most recently, the Healing Hands, Healing Hearts massage program trained me to give gentle massages. This is fulfilling to me and greatly appreciated by our patients. Sometimes I might just sit at the bedside. For one patient, my duties were to walk her precious dog!
In general, can you describe what makes this experience meaningful for you?
Each patient and each home and family environment is unique. Sometimes it is sitting quietly with the patient and sometimes it is having meaningful conversation with the caregiver. I feel that I have grown in so many ways. Our continuing education and volunteer meetings are good forums to share experiences. UC Davis supports volunteers and recognizes our efforts. It’s fun to gather and get to know the staff and develop friendships.
Is there one specific memory that rises above the rest?
Perhaps a most profound memory was the series of deep conversations I had with a woman who expressed that she wished she could live longer so that she too, could volunteer. She was focused in mind but not sound in body. I felt privileged to explore her many thoughts about life with her as she came to acceptance.
What is your personal philosophy or is there a specific mindset or goal you have when you come in to volunteer?
I love to observe and appreciate each person and each new day. I wish to respect and accept the perspectives of others.
What is the most challenging part?
It is bittersweet to say goodbye.
What advice do you have for those considering volunteering with end-of-life patients?
I would say go for it! Apply and take the training. And I’d commend them on their desire to walk with this journey and enrich many lives, including and especially their own.
Thank you, Mary, for your service to UC Davis Hospice patients. We at UC Davis Health appreciate your dedication and commitment!
