06/19/2026
Often people ask me how I stay so calm, even in high stress situations and climates. How I am able to remain peaceful despite being provoked. How I am able to keep emotions in check despite being triple fire(Leo sun, Leo moon, Sagittarius rising). Even with these new, raging hormones that come with creating life, how am I able to respond with calm and not rage?
The answer is within integrating the work. Facing that fire, and walking through it- naked, vulnerable, and afraid. Meeting and allowing space for all those parts of me. And instead of being swallowed by it, consumed by the fire, overwhelmed by the burn- I gave it light. I allowed it to be a part of me instead of fighting it and fueling the chaos.
It's not that I don't get angry or overwhelmed, I am still human. I still get overstimulated and stressed out. I still feel the fire rise up inside. But when I met myself in that basement, in the deepest, darkest parts of my being- I learned how to tame the flame. I learned how to use it instead. To channel it through breath and energy. Now instead of burning down everything around me, my fire keeps me warm. It is a protector and a guardian. It is just as much a part of me as the air in my lungs.
Your inner fire is not something you ever want to put out, even if it's destructive right now. Because believe me, mine used to burn down whole cities. The answer is learning to integrate it, and how to use the flame for transformation instead of harm. And you do that by meeting it, walking through it, until you find the core. It's not easy work, but it is probably the most important work you will do.
I've known God/Spirit/Source all my life. But the first time I really met them was in the pits of my very soul, inside myself, while doing the work. Where the coals burn hottest within my own rage. I still sometimes feel the fire rise, but it no longer burns. It transforms.
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