03/08/2023
When you think about fears, think of it like this: life is like walking inside a haunted house. You never know what’s going to happen. 😱😨🥲😝🥵😳
Is there something that’s going to jump at you?
Are you legs going to get grab?
Are you going to scream as soon as you see something moving?
Haunted houses are no joke. And although this analogy is there to make you smile a little, there is a resemblance with living life.
What makes it different is that life is 24 hours long. Not only opened on weekends or late at night. Which means, as you’re living life, there will be plenty of times where you’ll jump, scream, and panic.
The good news is - you don’t have to be scared every second, every minute, and every hour of your day.
You can learn to acknowledge, control, and go above those fears.
When you do, doors open up.
Opportunities are seen and available.
Solutions come to mind.
And a new reality is now accessible.
It is not to say that now that you’re acknowledging your fears and start controlling them that your life is going to be an easy, non-bumpy nor scary road. In truth, at times, it’s going to be terrifying to say the least.
In those moments, and plenty of other moments before that, you are going to be face with a reality. If you don’t change the way that you talk to yourself and others, you’re going to be eaten alive.
People you’ll meet, work with, and connect with will have a feel about you. They’ll start seeing the cracks of your terrifying self.
And when that happens, doors will shut down.
Opportunities will no longer be seen and available.
Dilemma will come to mind.
And your new uncertain, pessimistic, and out of control reality will then be created, lived, and feared.
Don’t wait until then to change what you’re telling to yourself.
