06/14/2026
Leaving for college is exciting… but it can also bring unexpected tension at home.
Many teens become distant, irritable, or emotionally reactive right before a major transition. For parents, this can feel confusing, personal, or even hurtful.
Sometimes these changes are less about rejection and more about the anxiety of becoming independent. Big life transitions can affect the entire family system.
Understanding the emotional process behind these moments may help families navigate this season with more compassion and perspective.
Aloha Psych serves California and Hawaii, and we are currently accepting new patients.
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