Helen Stearns, DNP

Helen Stearns, DNP Personalized (Peri)Menopause & Midlife Healthcare for Women. Here to empower YOU! Get your FREE Perimenopause Symptom Guide and Tracker! Link in bio!

Providing compassionate, evidence-based care to help you thrive, not just survive.

06/11/2026

Your gut didn't just randomly betray you in your 40s. Your hormones changed the game πŸ‘‡

Estrogen and progesterone don't just run your cycle β€” they regulate your entire digestive system. When they start shifting in perimenopause, your gut feels it:

πŸ”Ή Slower motility β†’ constipation that won't budge

πŸ”Ή Shifts in your gut microbiome β†’ more bloating, more inflammation

πŸ”Ή Changes in serotonin signaling (95% of it lives in your gut!) β†’ unpredictable digestion

πŸ”Ή A less efficient estrobolome β†’ your body can't recycle estrogen the way it used to

This isn't a mystery. It's physiology.

Here's what you can start doing TODAY:

πŸ₯ Add soluble fiber gradually β€” psyllium, oats, kiwi, prunes. Aim for 25g/day. Go slow (add ~5g/week) so you don't make bloating worse.

🍠 INCREASE PLANT DIVERSITY!!! One of the most effective ways of diversifying your microbiome (as well as increasing fiber intake by default)

πŸ’§ Hydrate WITH the fiber β€” water alone won't fix constipation, but water + fiber together actually improves stool frequency.

πŸšΆβ€β™€οΈ Move daily β€” even a 20-minute walk supports gut motility and has been shown to reshape the gut microbiome during the menopausal transition.

πŸ• Try timed stooling β€” sit on the toilet first thing in the morning or after meals, when your colon is naturally most active. A small stool under your feet helps too.

🫘 Eat phytoestrogen-rich foods β€” soy, flaxseed, lentils, chickpeas. These support your estrobolome and may help your body maintain healthier estrogen balance naturally.

Your gut has its own nervous system. It is listening to every hormonal shift. And it deserves to be part of the conversation.

If this resonated, save it πŸ’Ύ and share it with someone in their 40s who needs to hear this.

πŸ”— Link in bio if you're ready to look at the full picture.

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Raise your hand if this is you: You went to the doctor exhausted, foggy, and watching your hair fall out.They ran your l...
06/11/2026

Raise your hand if this is you:

You went to the doctor exhausted, foggy, and watching your hair fall out.

They ran your labs. Checked your hemoglobin. Told you everything looked normal.

And sent you home.

But here is the thing: the number most doctors never order can be completely depleted while your hemoglobin looks perfectly fine.

It is called ferritin. It is your body's iron savings account. And low ferritin mimics almost every symptom of perimenopause.

Fatigue that sleep does not fix. Brain fog. Anxiety. Hair thinning. Restless legs. All of it.

You are not imagining things. And this is not just your hormones.

I wrote this because I see this missed in almost every new patient I meet. Link to my more detailed article in bio! Or on website!

Knowledge is Power. And power can mean getting your health back. Walk into your next provider visit prepared for what to ask for!

Save this. Share it with a friend who has been told she is "fine."

And if you are ready for someone to finally look at the full picture for you, the link is in bio. Reach out. I'm here.

Relief for today. Health for tomorrow. 🌿

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06/08/2026

3 PRINCIPLES of
EATING HEALTHY πŸ«’πŸ₯”πŸ₯πŸ₯‘πŸ πŸ“πŸ₯₯πŸ₯¦πŸ˜‹

new to eating well?
dont' know where to start?

Its EASIER than you think!
Start here:

1. Choose foods from
a healthy food list that
you already LOVE.
Incorporate those foods.

2. Shop the PRODUCE section
FIRST (and MOST)
choose colorful foods, and
VARIETY. Your GUT microbiome
LOVES diversity of plants.

Your health depends on
FIBER FIBER FIBER!!

3. Start from a place
of mental ABUNDANCE!
Rather than depriving
yourself of foods,
start by adding IN
healthy foods. (See #1 :)

You will be
SHOCKED by the
difference that this
mindset and these
small changes can make
in your health and energy.

Fatigue is rooted
in inflammation. Eating
unprocessed foods, with an
emphasis on a variety of plants
will more than likely
increase your ENERGY.

What tips and tricks
have YOU found that
has helped you make
some dietary and lifestyle
changes?

HUGE thank you to and for the content inspiration on Dr Melinda Rings podcast Next Level Health episode ! Will post the link in comments!

The system wasn't built for us.Not for our hormones. Not for our sleep. Not for our mood, our s*x drive, our brain fog, ...
06/08/2026

The system wasn't built for us.

Not for our hormones.
Not for our sleep.
Not for our mood,
our s*x drive,
our brain fog,
or the way our bodies shift in midlife
in ways nobody warned us about.

For generations,
women were handed
a 15-minute appointment
and told this was just aging.
That it was normal.
That they should push through.

But something is changing.

Women are DONE.
WE are DONE.
DONE waiting for a system
that was never designed around US.

And women in medicine.
women who are living this too,
are building something different...

A revolution of care that
starts with actually listening.
Symptoms that get treated, not dismissed.
Appointments long enough
to get to the REAL answers.
Providers who are trained specifically
for this moment in your life,
because many of us are in it ourselves.

I am so honored to be
part of this revolution.
If you're looking for help where
you've gotten no answers,
Please reach out.
YOU are why we are here
and who we are for!

I have an extensive network
of menopause-specialized
colleagues across the country,
and I will personally connect you to one.

We've spent long enough
in a system that wasn't built for us.

We're building a new one.

And there's a place for you in it.

Comment "REVOLUTION" below or
DM me. 🀍

πŸ”— helenstearnsdnp.com

06/08/2026

SUPPLEMENTS & HEALTH

What do you REALLY need?

And is a cookie cutter approach
ever appropriate in healthcare?

Well, no, BUT we know
that all of us need
adequate amounts of certain
nutrients, and the
science is VERY clear on
the health and protective
benefits of certain
chemical structures
like omega 3 fatty acids.

There's a LOT of
noise out there
and a LOT of money
trading hands in the
wellness and supplement
world. Women are getting
lost in the shuffle.

What do you need, how much,
when, and what type?
It's really difficult
to find clear answers.

I love helping women
cut through the noise
and confusion and
get started on personalized,
evidence, science-based
protocols for overall
health and functional
longevity.

Hormone stabilization
does not exist in
a vacuum. We really
need all midlife systems
firing optimally to see the
true health and vitality
that is our goal.

I feel GOOD.
I've figured a few things out along the way;)
Let me help YOU feel good as well!

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06/06/2026

ALCOHOL...🍸🍷🍾🍺

our bodies REALLY don't love it.
Especially our perimenopausal bodies. 😩

There's something about this
time of life that causes alcohol
to be super disruptive to
our sleep, our moods, weight,
increased inflammation.

Not to mention the
10% increased risk
for breast cancer that
can accompany drinking...

So, what's a girl to do?πŸ‘©β€πŸ’Ό

Well, one incredible law
of habits (breaking or implementing
new ones) is the law
of SUBSTITUTION.

Keep that sparkly wine glass.
Make the fun ice cubes.
CELEBRATE! πŸŽ‰
Throw something together
that is still cold, wet,
and delicious that
is alcohol free. ✨

It can be as simple as
sparkling water with a splash
of your favorite juice and
curated bitters :)

OR
try this drink out
that I discovered

:)

Anyway, TONS
of fun options out
there now where you
can still feel
like the life of the party,
AND wake up feeling
like a million bucksπŸͺ™πŸͺ™πŸͺ™
(or at least capable
of being that bad-ass
woman you are)!

Love you,
Yours in health and hormones,
Helen πŸ’œ

06/05/2026

Feeling lost?

Googling your own symptoms
and lab results?

Asking friends and coworkers
what might be wrong with you?

Perimenopause can feel like
wandering in a labyrinth
with no light,
no way out,
no help.

Flashes of hope
lead to dead ends
and more confusion,
more twists and turns
and no end to the
suffering.

I'm here.
I've got the torch.
and a map.
My job is to guide you...
Home.

Home to yourself.
Home to the best version of you
you can remember and dream
of reclaiming.
Home to restful sleep.
Home to stable moods.
Home to health,
hormone stability,
strong bones,
clear mind,
and
a heart at peace.
knowing you are held,
supported,
seen,
heard.

Here at my practice,
we are re-building healthcare
how it is meant to be,
one woman at at time. ♀️

I can't wait to meet you. πŸ’œ

Our road trip began in Seville as we headed straight to the southern border of Portugal... We are not fans of Christophe...
06/05/2026

Our road trip began in Seville as we headed straight to the southern border of Portugal...

We are not fans of Christopher Columbus but his fateful voyage IS part of history, so we stopped and prowled around the Nina, Pinta, and Santa Maria. Sylvie declared it would be super boring but she ended up really liking them and wanted to explore all three ships!

On the way to Lagos, we of course had to stop and see Benagil Cave. The whole beach area was SO beautiful and the cliffs and rock formations were impressive.

We loved our night in Lagos. I had absolutely delicious fish for dinner and then we strolled around the old city and waterfront. Rather magical European evening βœ¨πŸ‡΅πŸ‡Ή

06/05/2026

Take TWO! (MY OTHER REEL GOT CUT OFF)

The women that come to me
are SO BURNED OUT...

by a healthcare system
that has let them
down countless times
on every level.

but also by
a deluge of often
contradictory and misleading
health information
online, mostly through
social media channels.

I had a woman tell me
yesterday she has had to
completely stop watching
ANYTHING related to
menopause it has become so
triggering for her.

So, what can you do?

1. Use discernment when
scrolling. Ask a trusted expert
who THEY follow and listen to.

2. Vet credentials and education.
"Coaching" is all the rage
these days and amounts
to a hill of beans when it comes
to knowing what you're talking about,
because it requires absolutely ZERO
education or certification to call
yourself a coach of anything.
(that may be an over-generalization,
so I apologize if so and perhaps there
are SOME fields where you do have to pass
certain testing or courses to call yourself
a coach)

3. Go to the source. If someone makes
a claim, dig down to what is the
source of that claim. Do they even know?
and if so, is it a reliable source?
News articles are NOT scientific sources.

4. Trust your gut. If it
sounds like BS, smells like BS, looks
like BS, it likely IS. And if someone is trying
to sell you a supplement, or
tells you "healthcare professionals
DON'T WANT YOU TO KNOW" something,
you know everything else out of
their mouths is lies.

Actually a huge part of our education
is learning HOW to TEACH our patients.

WE WANT YOU TO KNOW ALL THE THINGS.
PUT US OUT OF JOB BY BEING HEALTHY.
WE WOULD LOVE THAT SO MUCH.

06/04/2026

The women that come to me
are SO BURNED OUT...

by a healthcare system
that has let them
down countless times
on every level.

but also by
a deluge of often
contradictory and misleading
health information
online, mostly through
social media channels.

I had a woman tell me
yesterday she has had to
completely stop watching
ANYTHING related to
menopause it has become so
triggering for her.

So, what can you do?

1. Use discernment when
scrolling. Ask a trusted expert
who THEY follow and listen to.

2. Vet credentials and education.
"Coaching" is all the rage
these days and amounts
to a hill of beans when it comes
to knowing what you're talking about,
because it requires absolutely ZERO
education or certification to call
yourself a coach of anything.
(that may be an over-generalization,
so I apologize if so and perhaps there
are SOME fields where you do have to pass
certain testing or courses to call yourself
a coach)

3. Go to the source. If someone makes
a claim, dig down to what is the
source of that claim. Do they even know?
and if so, is it a reliable source?
News articles are NOT scientific sources.

4. Trust your gut. If it
sounds like BS, smells like BS, looks
like BS, it likely IS. And if someone is trying
to sell you a supplement, or
tells you "healthcare professionals
DON'T WANT YOU TO KNOW" something,
you know everything else out of
their mouths is lies.

Actually a huge part of our education
is learning HOW to TEACH our patients.

WE WANT YOU TO KNOW ALL THE THINGS.
PUT US OUT OF JOB BY BEING HEALTHY.
WE WOULD LOVE THAT SO MUCH.

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