Sliver of Wisdom

Sliver of Wisdom Mentor, real human guidance and support person providing various types of support including emotional and moral support. My name is Alesia. Mi nombre es Alesia.

Providing personal wisdom that can be used to navigate various types of personal relationships including relationship with self. I am the founder of Sliver of Wisdom. Contact me for a confidence boost, advice, someone trustworthy, help making a decision, navigating a situation, support coping, help recognizing your responsibility or recognizing your accountability in a situation or just an attenti

ve and caring ear. I am happy to help and here when you need support and confidentiality. Soy el fundador de Sliver of Wisdom. Póngase en contacto conmigo para un aumento de confianza, consejo, alguien digno de confianza, ayuda para tomar una decisión, navegar una situación, apoyar el enfrentamiento, ayudar a reconocer su responsabilidad en una situación o simplemente un oído atento y cariñoso. Estoy feliz de ayudar y estoy aquí cuando necesite apoyo y confidencialidad.

06/03/2026

I ADORE my husband. I spent so many years trying to find someone solid to build with. I'm not talking superficially. I'm not talking about building a home, or a pool, or a bank account. I'm talking about someone to build a life with. Someone to create family with, someone I could invest in who would also invest in me. Again, I'm not talking about money or things. Someone who would invest their trust in me. Someone who would invest their knowledge and wisdom in me. Someone who would invest their love in me. Here's the thing, most people who know me really don't know me at all.

The person they meet outside of my home is tough but tolerable, a good conversationalist, a hospitable host, but the person I really am is intuitive, protective, and analytical. I am always open to different perspectives. I am by no means closed minded. I have my character flaws as we all do, but I don't let those flaws stop me from being a kind person.

Can you pinpoint something of value that you have spent much time trying to find or accomplish in your personal experience that maybe you have achieved or are working on and need support with? Let's talk about it.

06/03/2026

People have bullied me, gossiped about me, brought up my adulthood adventures, my less than favorable childhood styles, and any other thing that they felt necessary to make themselves seem better in some way or another. I'm not immune to people being sarcastic at my expense or people trying to make themselves look funny, or cute, or better than me for whatever reason. If someone wants to make themselves look foolish, I just don't care about it. I constantly disconnect from people who cross a line with me. Why should I be connected to someone who doesn't value me? It doesn't matter if they are family or extended family or friends or best friends. There are some things that should just not be done, and that includes devaluing someone who loves you - who you otherwise love for a moment of power.

Have you been a subject of someone else's insecurity? Someone else's jealousy? Someone else's envy (a very real thing)? How did you get through it? Let's talk about it. I'm listening.

I remember all the times that I told God that if he was going to send me a partner, for him to send me someone that was ...
05/14/2026

I remember all the times that I told God that if he was going to send me a partner, for him to send me someone that was WAY stronger than me. I mean, s-t-r-o-n-g. There are so many characteristics of mine that someone who is much stronger than me can actually handle.
- Grew up in a very low income home
- Raised in strict environment
- Super hyper independent
- Used to living in survival mode
- Sometimes Insecure
- Sometimes needy
- Sometimes and overthinker
- **I can go on...
It wasn't until my husband found me and truly loved me and made a safe space for me that I started to let go, to trust, to receive... He deals with all of my faults and broke down all of my walls and still loves me. In all of my love, in all of my independence, after all of my deepest, darkest, survival phases he has been my one constant cup of love and refuge from the world. He did not just take in a single mom with a daughter but he also took in everything that's ever happened to us including family drama. I honor my husband. He probably has the hardest job of all - Me.

What do you think of when you think of the best partner for you? Are they in your life already? Are you looking for them right now? Tell me about.

05/14/2026

To contact me for service, please use this link: https://gl.me/u/hZhddwZVp2lb . Service is $75.00/Hr.
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TRUTH: The first step is ALWAYS the hardest, but good things start to happen the moment you take it.

05/11/2026

I don't attach very easily to things in my life. I've experienced so much loss in my life so I've learned to remain detached, and that's how I've been able to move forward. That's me.. I am always moving forward...

What helps to keep YOU moving forward? Or what would HELP you move forward? Tell me all about it. I'm listening.

I had always been convinced that it was because I prayed for my daughter that I got the privilege of having her. I lite...
05/11/2026

I had always been convinced that it was because I prayed for my daughter that I got the privilege of having her. I literally asked God for her with all of my heart and soul.

Exactly 6 months before my daughter was born, I was close to 40 years old, I was on my own and had done all of my "discovering" in my 20's and 30's and then was ready to invest all of my time into what I thought was the next step, union and building a stable life and family.

I'd started going to church consistently, on my own. I'd started there for a little direction. Walking in, dabbing a little Holy Water, trying to "cleanse my spirit". Taking that first step toward getting myself in the right state of mind to deserve to procreate.

Building a family of my own was always a dream. A constant dream. A lovely dream.

I'd started questioning where my life was going and what I was doing and what I could change to make it so that I was in a position to meet someone worthy, go through all of the motions with them, and then start a family. We all do that right?

Additionally, I couldn't imagine myself going all of my life and not once having experienced pregnancy; raising a child; building happiness through family and connection. At that time, I was all heart, unfiltered.

Then God gave me her

04/10/2026

How does someone like me who's been through so much cope? How did I not shut myself in dark room and pitty party myself into an oblivious bad parenting habit after everything that has happened to me? How did I manage to keep not just myself sane, but also my daughter, and get complimented about my parenting skills? I'll tell you... Aside of the fact that I've always been the "underdog" - under appreciated, under estimated, under siege by almost everyone who has crossed paths with me, I have managed to keep other peoples judgements, criticisms, and opinions completely separate of my own. I've literally chatted myself out negative thinking and was able to convince myself that other peoples issues were not about me. I might have literally stepped out of my body, looked at myself, and gave myself the one-finger scolding.

How I got here is not by any means an easy task.

I walked around with very little confidence most of life, and then to top that off, bad family relationships, bad friendships, and some very awful work environments. Life was never a walk in the park for me. If I'd have had my dreams come true when I was, say 23 yrs old, first out of the family home and on my own, I would have been married out of high school, already working on children (to get that out of the way), but that wasn't the case.

Instead I walked through hot coals. I could have given up. Surely that's what everyone around me expected, but I didn't...

Yes, I was carrying the world upon my shoulders, and I'm sure that if someone else felt as much stress and distress as I did, they'd feel like they had the world on their shoulders too...

The weight of everyones world is different.

To be continued...

03/23/2026

I am my child's first line of defense. I am her protector and her first whisper of wisdom. I am her guide, her teacher, her gatekeeper, and will teach her to be better than I ever could. I always communicate with my daughter (silently, quietly, and sometimes loudly), walk her through the steps when she doesn't understand what I am saying, and take the time to help her understand the who, the what, and the why of things. I have been doing this since the moment she first understood something I'd said.

I was a single mom and hope that teaching my daughter in a way that she could understand would help her to navigate the world around her and would help me raise a knowledgeable, aware, conscious child. I need my daughter to be able to navigate the world around her if something should ever happen to me. I want her to know the this's-and-that's without having to rely on the world around her to teach her. No one knows a persons intentions.

Can you put into words the role you play in your child's life? How much do you value that role? Let's talk about.

02/28/2026

I'm not a religious person but I wholeheartedly believe in God and my Ancestors, and I will tell you until I'm blue in the face that he/they have always been by my side. I have never once felt alone or abandoned by them at any moment in my life. It doesn't matter that I can't see them or touch them. Their existence is real to me; having known them or knowing of them; feeling them; communicating with them, and witnessing the spiritual protection they provide me has been enough proof for me. All of my faith is in them .

Before this beautiful era of my life, I clawed my way through a very long path of bad experiences.
- Rejection by my biological father.
- Trauma from:
• a hyper-strict momma
• alcoholic partners
• conpeople.
• selfish people
• unfaithful people
• stalkers
• cheaters
• people who take advantage
• indecisive people
• jealous/envious people
• several forms of abusive people
• liars
• violent people
• people addicted to drugs
• people who betray and gossip
• Bullies and spiritual attackers

It has not been an easy life experience.

I think that because I have been through so much in my life, I've had a tendency to really try to preserve any small great experiences by over committing ,over extending, giving more, accepting less, silently forgiving... But, here I am. Still in good spirits, still loving, still hopeful.

I could not ask for anything more than what God/Ancestors have given me thus far, and yet the blessings keep coming.

What has your personal life experience been like? Are you someone that has progressively moved forward without any obstacles put in your way or are you someone who's constantly had obstacles put in your way that seemed to come out of nowhere? Tell me about it.

02/27/2026

Sometimes, people are so full of ideas that they just can't help it. Ideas that have been in the making for however long that just need to make their way out. Sometimes these ideas are an effort to nudge an expansion of the mind, sometimes they are to help execute a process smoother, sometimes they are to encourage change. Almost everyone has ideas. I would be surprised if someone didn't have at least 5 or 10 that roll around in the depths of their mind (if not more). Ideas are not always about overstepping, controlling, or stealing. Sometimes ideas are just put out to make something better or smoother, or different than the usual. Not everyone is trying to control, be in competition with, or steal from everyone else. Sometimes people are just trying to make a change that will cause an impact or forward movement out of the hum-drum. I'm always full of ideas. Brewing ideas is 2nd nature to me. I don't want to suffer or get stuck in the same idea my ENTIRE life if it's not bringing me joy. I enjoy hearing people's ideas and I love to share my ideas. I love to brew ideas that will make my life smoother, make my job smoother, and even make someone else's situation smoother.

Do you have any ideas that you want to share? Are you ABLE to share them? How does it make you feel when you are able to freely share your ideas without any judgement, suspicion, or accusation? Tell me about it.

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