10/30/2026
Some of my favorite moments in practice happen right at the end of an appointment. 🌿
We’ve gone through the labs, built the plan, and she’s gathering her things. Then she stops at the door and says, “Can I ask you one more thing? It’s probably silly.”
It’s never silly.
“Can stress really keep me from getting pregnant?”
“Should I stop working out while we’re trying?”
“If I have PCOS, does that mean I’ll need IVF?”
“My thyroid is ‘normal,’ so that’s not the problem, right?”
These are the questions women carry around for months. They ask Google. They ask the forums. They ask their friends. And they usually hold them back from their own doctor because the appointment felt too rushed, or they didn’t want to seem dramatic.
So I answered some of the ones I hear most, right here.
And here’s what you’ll notice: almost none of the answers are a clean yes or no. Because fertility doesn’t work that way. The right answer for you depends on your cycle, your hormones, your thyroid, your metabolic health, and your history. That’s why following every rule you see online so often leads to more confusion, not less.
The questions you’re too embarrassed to ask are usually the most important ones. You deserve a doctor who has time for all of them.
If you want answers that are actually about your body, book a free discovery call through the link in my bio. Bring your list. I’ll review your history before we talk, and no question is too small. 🤍
P.S. Save this, and drop the question you’ve been meaning to ask in the comments. It might end up in the next one.