Lisa Angelini, Holistic Psychotherapist and Life Coach

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Holistic Psychotherapist | Trauma &Attachment Specialist | Relationship and Dating Coach| Author

Helping people heal from heartbreak, betrayal & life transitions by blending psychology with soul-centered wisdom. Lisa Angelini, MAPC, CAGS, LPC, CLC, is a Holistic Psychotherapist, Certified Advanced Clinical Hypnotherapist, Certified Life Coach, Reiki Master, workshop and series leader, and speaker.

This time of year, I usually write about the beauty of fall — the crisp air, the slowing down, the quiet gratitude of th...
09/08/2026

This time of year, I usually write about the beauty of fall — the crisp air, the slowing down, the quiet gratitude of the season. This year, that felt incomplete. As a therapist, I pay close attention to what’s actually present, not just what we wish were true — and what’s present for me right now is something more layered than a polished reflection on autumn.

Here in Arizona, we’re still deep in triple-digit heat, with real relief months away. It adds to something I see often in my practice this time of year — a kind of reverse seasonal affective disorder, where the heat becomes a pressure cooker, wearing people down the way gray skies do elsewhere.

The state of the world enters my office every day too. Clients bring in their worry — about the news, about the country, about a constant undercurrent of uncertainty. When the people they trust — therapists, mentors, leaders — don’t at least acknowledge what’s happening, trust in them can begin to wane. It’s hard to feel steadied by someone who seems unaware of the ground shifting beneath everyone. I won’t pretend otherwise here.

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Monkey branching isn’t just leaving.It’s quietly lining up the next relationship before fully ending the last one. It’s ...
09/03/2026

Monkey branching isn’t just leaving.

It’s quietly lining up the next relationship before fully ending the last one. It’s avoiding the hard conversations, skipping the repair, and moving on before truly facing what happened.

Instead, they’re basking in the dopamine of a new connection—the excitement, validation, attention, and temporary relief of someone new.

Anything to avoid sitting alone with the discomfort of loss, accountability, and healing.

Meanwhile, the person left behind is left with the wounds, the confusion, and a thousand unanswered questions.

Some do this time and time again.

Are they wounded too? Perhaps. Their wounds may explain the pattern, but they don’t excuse the impact.

Their trauma is not their fault. But healing from it is their responsibility.

No one should be used as a bridge to someone else’s next relationship and left carrying the pain that person refused to face.

When you’re in a relationship with someone with an avoidant attachment pattern…You may find yourself constantly trying t...
09/02/2026

When you’re in a relationship with someone with an avoidant attachment pattern…

You may find yourself constantly trying to figure out where you stand.

Do they love me?
Why are they pulling away?
Did I do something wrong?
Why can’t we get closer?
Why am I always the one reaching?

So you try harder.

You communicate more.
You give more space.
You try to make them feel safe.
You try to become the person they won’t leave.

And somewhere along the way…

you stop asking, “Is this relationship meeting my needs?”

And start asking,

“What do I need to do to keep them?”

That’s where you begin losing yourself.

Because you can spend endless energy trying to understand someone’s avoidance…

but you’ll never make sense of something—or someone—that doesn’t make sense in the moment.

You don’t have to abandon yourself
to keep someone else from running.

You deserve a relationship where you don’t have to chase closeness.

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