Piece of Mind Counseling & Consultation, PLLC

Piece of Mind Counseling & Consultation, PLLC Dr. Jaymie VanMeter, PhD., LMHC, LPC, NCC, ACS, BC-TMH, CYT

With over 15 years of experience in counseling, supervision, and consultation.

I provide expert support to help you thrive.

If anyone is interested in psychology and counseling education topics next week, or if you need free CEUs for the year, ...
06/06/2026

If anyone is interested in psychology and counseling education topics next week, or if you need free CEUs for the year, this is a great opportunity.

My department at The Chicago School of Professional Psychology hosts an annual virtual conference featuring presenters from around the world on a wide range of counseling, psychology, education, supervision, and wellness topics.

Feel free to share with colleagues, students, and professionals who may be interested.

The conference begins next week and is entirely virtual.

I will be presenting on Thursday at 11:00 AM CT / 12:00 PM ET:

"When the Mind Protects Itself: Recognizing and Responding to Dissociation in Practice"

This presentation is culturally informed and includes multiple handbooks and practical resources created for participants to use in their work post educational session.

Anyone can register, view the conference schedule, and attend using the link below:

PhD CES Sponsored Counselor Education – Online 2026 Virtual Conference: Creating Safe Spaces Implications for Counselors, Clients, Students, and Supervisees Tuesday, June 9, 2026 – Thursday, June 11, 2026 9am-6pm […]

⚠️ A caution about interpreting this article concretely: This could unintentionally be misconstrued as another reinforce...
06/01/2026

⚠️ A caution about interpreting this article concretely: This could unintentionally be misconstrued as another reinforcement to dismiss the body's signals as the past playing in the present. Trauma survivors are told this so often that they learn to tune out their body's signals, which can actually decrease attunement, embodiment, and trust in their own experience while increasing susceptibility to danger. 🚨If every alarm is reduced to a prediction error, we risk losing contact with one of our most important sources of wisdom and protection.

AND....

This thought-provoking article invites us to reconsider perspectives about one of the most influential metaphors in trauma treatment. The authors explore how "The body does not keep the score; the brain keeps predicting it."

🤔 I THINK THERE IS A MIDDLE GROUND.

✅️ I would add: The body may not keep score, but it does store memory, Kukushkin (2024) found vast evidence that even "kidney and nerve tissue cells learn and make memories in ways similar to neurons." Body, organ, and cellular tissue memory exist outside of a vacuum, especially if chronic or ongoing threats are present, AND the brain will keep predicting it.

When trauma becomes chronic, the nervous system can become organized around it. This score is no longer being kept in one place. It is continuously being co-authored.

Co-authoring inspired by past experiences and remaining true to its present experience.

When the brain remains actively scoring threat and predicting danger (consciously or unconsciously), the body responds to what is encoded and remains activated. This does not mean that once the brain may shift from predicting, the body doesn't have long term impacts. Long-term impacts and medical issues remain real and valid.

The brain and body integrate what may have been necessary for survival in those moments but could not be completed, and for many in current environments/situations these moments are still occurring in the present. This does not diminish the reality of present or past suffering, nor does it suggest confusion between the two. It simply means that self-protection is reasonable and the body/brain can metabolize traumatic encoding.

Rather than viewing trauma as something permanently stored within us, the authors offer a perspective that aligns with what I have witnessed both clinically and through my own post-traumatic growth work. Trauma-driven predictions, whether conscious or unconscious, reinforce the body's self-protective responses, increase severity, and compound long-term physiological/neurological medical impacts.

Healing becomes profound when it is holistic. When interrupted somatic experiences can be safely completed while restoring the brain's flexibility, adaptability, and capacity for safety, agency, and possibility. Through meaningful therapeutic relationships and integrative approaches, the body, brain, and soul can process experience, create new meaning, and move beyond prediction into transformation.

The Body Does Not Keep the Score: Trauma, Predictive Coding, and the Restoration of Metastability By Steven Kotler, Michael Mannino, Glenn Fox, Karl Friston ...

Trauma is not the events or event itself, it is what may unintentionally replay and possible onset of trauma in the whol...
05/16/2026

Trauma is not the events or event itself, it is what may unintentionally replay and possible onset of trauma in the whole self, mind, and full body experience.

Trauma is the neurological wounding that occurs when the mind, body, and nervous system are overwhelmed beyond their capacity to safely process what happened.

Counselors do not erase the past. We help people reclaim safety within themselves, restore connection to the body, challenge survival patterns mistaken for identity, and create pathways for healing the brain, body, and soul.






The most powerful thing you can do now?Start noticing… without judgment.👇 I want to hear from you:Which one hit you the ...
05/10/2026

The most powerful thing you can do now?
Start noticing… without judgment.

👇 I want to hear from you:
Which one hit you the hardest—The Pattern, The Trigger, The Invisible Rule, or Believe?
Or… what does YOUR body do when the switch flips?

Share in the comments. Your experience matters. ❤️ You’re not alone in it.

If you’re ready to reconnect with your body, and do deeper healing without symptom bandaids, I help people do exactly that.
Not by forcing change, but by working with your body and your nervous system so healing feels safe and long-lasting.

05/01/2026

The body keeps the score 🫂.
When a lifetime of overgiving meets an empty well, the body will speak what the heart has long carried. It is collapse. A wise interruption inviting you to finally offer yourself the same depth of care you’ve given everyone else. There is NOTHING wrong with you. This is your body forcing you to heal and begging you to listen with care ❤️

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05/01/2026

Reactive abuse is the nervous system’s breaking point after prolonged harm, neglect, subtle timeless controls (emotional, psychological, spiritual, physical, or all). The nervous systems final reactions is the desperation after enduring so much, often left unspoken and unseen.

People may only be witness to the public performance and the work you do in attempt to maintain peace. This DOES NOT erase the pattern or the facts about what you endured or may be continuing to endure.♥️ Silence and fear of judgment compounding your experience.

Some of my passion work is being alongside those who experience this reality and are working through the self- blame loops everyday. 🫂 The depth of wondering how they got here. I SEE YOU AND HONOR YOUR TRUTH.

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🩵 April is Sexual Assault Awareness Month 🩵Research reminds us of something too often overlooked: victims of sexual viol...
04/13/2026

🩵 April is Sexual Assault Awareness Month 🩵

Research reminds us of something too often overlooked: victims of sexual violence don’t usually respond in fight or flight. Though those responses may have been attempted, danger increases. Trauma responses most often resort to dissociation, compliance, appeasement, placating, confusion, and fragmented memory.

In the moment, and in the aftermath, what is systemically misunderstood and often used against victims is evidence of something so much more important.

These are not signs of consent.
They are not signs of enjoyment.
THEY ARE SIGNS OF OVERWHELMING DANGER & SURVIVAL.

They are the body and mind doing whatever is necessary to get away, reduce harm, and remain alive. 🫂

02/28/2026

PSA: Talk to your boys about the memes they may be sent by other boys, especially the ones about Jeffrey Epstein and what they actually mean.

These aren’t jokes. They’re cultural signals. When boys share memes about exploitation and abuse, even casually, they’re participating in a normalization of something devastating. Humor can blur the weight of harm. It can distance them from the real human suffering underneath the punchline. Silence does the rest.

My son was sent a few. We didn’t shame. We didn’t panic. We paused. We talked about impact versus intent. About how repetition desensitizes. About how accepting something without context or without advocating can quietly align with what it minimizes. We talked about power, about victims, about why certain names carry history and pain.

These conversations matter.

♥️If you’re unsure where to begin:

Be curious, don’t accuse. “What do you think this meme is saying?”

Separate intent from impact.

Help them see that harm isn’t erased because something was sent as a cultural joke.

Name the reality.Explain who the person was and why it matters.

Teach digital integrity. Every share is a choice.

Model courage.Let them see that hard conversations are part of becoming a safe, thoughtful human.

Share how silence may unintentionally support complicity of distribution. Let them know they have immense power to help support victims, survivors, and each other as boys/men to create a foundation of safety, what that may mean, and what it can look like.

Practice or role play ways they feel comfortable sharing with their friends that the memes shared with them are not appropriate in group chats and how to disengage meaningfully, without shaming their friends for what they may not know or understand. Learning to become the voice of advocacy and accountability.

We cannot outsource moral formation to the internet.

💬 Have you had this talk yet? Share your experience below.

02/27/2026

PSA: Talk to your boys about the memes they may be sent by other boys, especially the ones about Jeffrey Epstein and what they actually mean.

These aren’t jokes. They’re cultural signals. When boys share memes about exploitation and abuse, even casually, they’re participating in a normalization of something devastating. Humor can blur the weight of harm. It can distance them from the real human suffering underneath the punchline. Silence does the rest.

My son was sent a few. We didn’t shame. We didn’t panic. We paused. We talked about impact versus intent. About how repetition desensitizes. About how accepting something without context or without advocating can quietly align with what it minimizes. We talked about power, about victims, about why certain names carry history and pain.

These conversations matter.

♥️If you’re unsure where to begin:

Be curious, don’t accuse. “What do you think this meme is saying?”

Separate intent from impact.

Help them see that harm isn’t erased because something was sent as a cultural joke.

Name the reality.Explain who the person was and why it matters.

Teach digital integrity. Every share is a choice.

Model courage.Let them see that hard conversations are part of becoming a safe, thoughtful human.

Share how silence may unintentionally support complicity of distribution. Let them know they have immense power to help support victims, survivors, and each other as boys/men to create a foundation of safety, what that may mean, and what it can look like.

Practice or role play ways they feel comfortable sharing with their friends that the memes shared with them are not appropriate in group chats and how to disengage meaningfully, without shaming their friends for what they may not know or understand. Learning to become the voice of advocacy and accountability.

We cannot outsource moral formation to the internet. If we want our self-identified boys to become men who protect rather than perpetuate harm, we have to be willing to step into the reality, the possibility of discomfort and tell the truth. Integrate these conversations clearly, calmly, and early.

Monitor what your children receive and use them as profound ways to have impactful conversations.

🔥🫶These conversations belong with all children, of every identity and gender identity. Empathy, accountability, and digital integrity is a responsibility we share in raising every human being.

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