05/20/2026
For many parents, itâs becoming increasingly clear: the world our children are growing up in looks very different from the one we knew.
Many of us remember taking turns on the family computer, waiting through the screech of dial-up internet, and logging off after our allotted 30 minutes online. Today, many children carry a powerful computer in their pocket at all times. Schoolwork is completed online, toys are often internet-connected, and digital tools have become woven into nearly every part of daily life.
One of the newest and fastest-growing technologies children may be using is AI chatbots.
AI chatbots are computer programs designed to answer questions, solve problems, and offer conversation in ways that can feel friendly, encouraging, and deeply personal. They can mimic human interaction surprisingly wellâand for some children and teens, these tools can feel comforting. Many young people are turning to chatbots for companionship, advice, and emotional support.
While this can feel helpful, itâs important to remember: AI is not human.
Chatbots cannot read facial expressions, understand emotional nuance the way people can, or fully recognize the developmental needs of children and adolescents. They may also unintentionally reinforce harmful thinking, provide inaccurate information, or offer advice that misses important context.
Thatâs why ongoing conversations with our children matter.
Consider asking:
⢠Have you ever used an AI chatbot?
⢠Which ones do you like, and why?
⢠Has a chatbot ever said something that felt confusing or upsetting?
These discussions can also be an opportunity to remind children that there are some things technology simply cannot replace. Human conversations can be complicated, messy, and sometimes frustratingâbut they are also where empathy, perspective, and meaningful connection are built.
We may not be able to slow the pace of technology, but we can help our children learn how to navigate it wiselyâand remind them that no digital tool can replace the value of being truly seen, heard, and understood by another person.
Sources
HealthyChildren.org â Are AI Chatbots Safe for Kids?
(American Academy of Pediatrics)
American Academy of Pediatrics (PDF resource on AI and children)
ParentMap â The Dangers of Kids Using AI Chatbots for Emotional Health