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Did you know that an oyster will not produce a pearl unless it has been wounded in some way?

A pearl is actually a healed wound. It forms when an irritant, like a grain of sand or a parasite, enters the oyster’s shell. To protect itself, the oyster secretes layers of a smooth, shiny substance called nacre, coating the intruder over time. Layer by layer, this process continues until a beautiful pearl is formed.

In a way, pearls are a product of pain—transforming something unwanted into something valuable. The more pearls an oyster produces, the more precious it becomes.

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“ I RESPECT YOUR STORM, BUT IT'S YOURS

“There will be a time in life when you will have to look into the eyes of someone close — your partner, a friend, a brother — and say firmly and tenderly:
“I’m going to be honest with you. From now on I will no longer enter the whirlwind of your emotions. I respect them, I understand them, I even honor them.. but they're yours, not mine. I can't live them as if they were part of my soul, because in this journey I also carry my own emotional backpack, and it's the only thing I can carry.

If you decide to stay in that storm, I will support you, always from my place, from my calm. I won't leave you, but I won't lose myself with you either. From here, from my center, I can be a lighthouse, not a ship that sinks with you. I love you, and precisely because I love you, I need to take care of my balance.

Loving is not carrying the weight of another's life on your back; it is walking together, free, light, each owning its own storms. Love does not have to hurt more than necessary; love, when it is genuine, builds, not destroys."

Sometimes, loving also means learning to say, “Here I am, but without forgetting myself.”.

— Fernando D'Sandi

01/24/2025

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In aviation, if a landing doesn’t feel right, pilots don’t force it they go around and try again. Life works the same way. Not every attempt will be perfect, and that’s okay.

Mistakes and setbacks don’t mean failure. They’re just chances to learn and improve. Sometimes, you need to step back, adjust your approach, and give it another shot. What matters is that you keep trying.

Success isn’t about getting everything right the first time. It’s about having the courage to go around, try again, and keep moving forward.

So don’t be too hard on yourself. Whether in flying or in life, you always have another chance.