04/07/2020
“The only choice we have as we mature is how we inhabit our vulnerability, how we become larger and more courageous and more compassionate through our intimacy with disappearance, our choice is to inhabit vulnerability as generous citizens of loss, robustly and fully, or conversely, as misers and complainers, reluctant and fearful, always at the gates of existence, but never bravely and completely attempting to enter, never wanting to risk ourselves, never walking fully through the door.“
VULNERABILITY
is not a weakness, a passing indisposition, or something we can arrange to do without, vulnerability is not a choice, vulnerability is the underlying, ever present and abiding under-current of our natural state. To run from vulnerability is to run from the essence of our nature, the attempt to be invulnerable is the vain attempt to become something we are not and most especially, to close off our understanding of the grief of others. More seriously, in refusing our vulnerability we refuse to ask for the help needed at every turn of our existence and immobilize the essential, tidal and conversational foundations of our identity.
To have a temporary, isolated sense of power over all events and circumstances, is a lovely illusory privilege and perhaps the prime beautifully constructed conceit of being human and most especially of being youthfully human, but it is a privilege that must be surrendered with that same youth, with ill health, with accident, with the loss of loved ones who do not share our untouchable powers; powers eventually and most emphatically given up, as we approach our last breath.
The only choice we have as we mature is how we inhabit our vulnerability, how we become larger and more courageous and more compassionate through our intimacy with disappearance, our choice is to inhabit vulnerability as generous citizens of loss, robustly and fully, or conversely, as misers and complainers, reluctant, and fearful, always at the gates of existence, but never bravely and completely attempting to enter, never wanting to risk ourselves, never walking fully through the door.
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‘VULNERABILITY’
From CONSOLATIONS:
The Solace, Nourishment and Underlying Meaning of Everyday Words.
© David Whyte and Many Rivers Press 2015
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‘VULNERABILITY’ in CONSOLATIONS:
https://www.amazon.com/Consolations-Nourishment-Underlying-Meaning-Everyday/dp/1932887342/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&sr=&qid
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Anyone living, or more accurately, locks down, in Spain, or Granada at this time would be more than glad to walk the streets of their beautiful city with their other Andalusian friends alongside, or just around the corner, or waiting for them for a communal dinner. We have so many simple liberties that are being highlighted by our present besieged circumstances. Stay safe, stay close to yourself if you cannot be close to others, and above all keep faith for our emergence from these difficult days. DW
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AWAKE IN GRANADA
Photo © David Whyte
Carrera Del Darro
Grenada, Spain April 2nd 2019
