Nicole Cruz RD

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06/09/2026

“Ugh! I know! But when you say that it makes me not want to do it even more!”

This is what my daughter yelled back to my husband and it’s exactly what happens with food.

The more we push kids to eat their vegetables, finish their protein, try just one bite… the more they don’t want to do it. The more they resist.

Not because they’re being difficult. But because that’s how humans work. Pressure, or being told what to do, creates more resistance. It’s psychology.

And you’re not wrong to want your kid to eat in a balanced way, to try new foods, to get the nutrition they need.

As a mom and dietitian, I want that too.

But the thing is- we need a different approach.

There’s a way to help them eat well without the battles, the bribing, the negotiating, the “you have to try it” standoffs.

You can help your kid eat well without fighting about food or making them more resistant to it. And I want to show you exactly how.

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Say them both out loud…⁠⁠“No more junk!”⁠VS.⁠“It’s almost dinner time. Let’s put the chips away.”⁠⁠Now notice how you fe...
06/08/2026

Say them both out loud…⁠

“No more junk!”⁠
VS.⁠
“It’s almost dinner time. Let’s put the chips away.”⁠

Now notice how you feel. ⁠

And how might you react?⁠

Do you notice the difference…⁠

That one carries a sense of judgment, might make you feel bad, and also might make you dig your heels in or try to get more chips. ⁠

But the other simply sets a boundary based on timing. It doesn’t make you feel like upper doing something wrong. ⁠

This is what our kids need. For us to hold judgment-free, supportive boundaries with food. ⁠

For more on where to start, grab my free guide. ⁠

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Body size is a spectrum. There will always be children in bodies that are bigger & smaller. We’re not all supposed to be...
06/05/2026

Body size is a spectrum. There will always be children in bodies that are bigger & smaller. We’re not all supposed to be the same size. It’s like any other natural thing in this world: trees, animals, mountains… that’s diversity.⁠

There’s no "right" body size.⁠

Maybe you believe your child is bigger than they should be, or you've been told they're "overweight" by their doctor.⁠ You might be worried about it. Scared their body will keep growing to be “too big” or they’ll be unhealthy. It makes sense because we’re conditioned to believe that big = bad. ⁠
Often this leads to parents restricting types or amounts of food.⁠

Some of the issues with this:⁠
👉 Weight doesn’t reflect health. All bodies grow differently, at different times & rates.⁠
👉 If their body is bigger than it might naturally be, because of another issue, then you miss that underlying issue by only focusing on weight.⁠
👉 Restriction creates deprivation, which ultimately leads to disordered eating, & their weight increasing more.⁠
👉 Restriction sends the message → your body is wrong & needs to be controlled.⁠

Even if your child’s bigger, they should still be provided with all the same foods you would provide to any other child in order to: instill eating competence, support them to listen to their body to self-regulate, assess any potential underlying concerns, & allow them to grow into the body that’s right for them.⁠

They should have access to all types of food the same way a smaller child would.⁠

Their body is not something to try & change. The more you control the food, the more likely they feel out of control with these foods, & the more likely they're to end up in an even bigger body than would be natural for them.⁠

If you are concerned about their size, it makes sense. You’re told their body is wrong. Restriction is not the answer. In fact, more permission, with appropriate structure around food, will help nurture a balanced relationship with food & allow them to grow into the body that is right for THEM!⁠

To best support your child to grow into the body that’s right for them, grab my free guide: 5 Keys to Raise an Intuitive Eater. ⁠

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Yes, we’re feeding for now. But we’re also feeding for the future!⁠⁠If you want to know how to help your child eat well ...
06/03/2026

Yes, we’re feeding for now. But we’re also feeding for the future!⁠

If you want to know how to help your child eat well while also protecting their relationship with food, grab my FREE guide - 5 Keys to Raise an Intuitive Eater.⁠

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“I don’t have to eat it!” - TRUTH!⁠⁠As much as I want my kids to try new food and eat a variety overall, I also want the...
06/01/2026

“I don’t have to eat it!” - TRUTH!⁠

As much as I want my kids to try new food and eat a variety overall, I also want them to feel safe with food and safe in their body. ⁠

I want them to know they can say NO when it comes to their body - in all sorts of situations.⁠

And the truth is, pressuring kids to eat isn’t a solid strategy. The research shows that it leads to more resistance, not a “better” palette. ⁠

So while trying to make our kids eat sends what I would consider the wrong message about their body, it’s also not effective. ⁠

If you feel caught in this cycle, the first step is to stop pressuring. Yes, I know it feels like they’ll never try or eat anything. But we have to start there. ⁠

After we create safety, we can work with other, more helpful strategies to help them learn to try and like new foods 🩵

I was at a bbq and kept hearing…⁠💬  I really shouldn’t be eating this.⁠💬  Is there anything here that’s healthy?⁠💬  This...
05/29/2026

I was at a bbq and kept hearing…⁠
💬 I really shouldn’t be eating this.⁠
💬 Is there anything here that’s healthy?⁠
💬 This one really isn’t that bad, I made it with…⁠
💬 A few bites doesn’t count, right?⁠

And while there’s nothing wrong with sometimes swapping out an ingredient or adding more vegetables, it’s also not necessary, especially if it changes the dish you truly love.⁠

While some foods might provide more nutrition than others, it’s also not necessary to “healthify” every single meal or feel like you always need to choose the most nutrient-dense option.⁠

Sometimes food can just be enjoyed WITHOUT anything else attached!⁠

Food rules and guilt don’t actually help anyone eat better or have a healthy relationship with food.

What else would you add? 🩵
05/28/2026

What else would you add? 🩵

There’s a growing body of research that shows how we feed our kids isn’t just about what they actually eat. How we feed ...
05/25/2026

There’s a growing body of research that shows how we feed our kids isn’t just about what they actually eat. How we feed them actually influences how they think about food, feel about food, and whether they can trust themselves with food or trust their body.
Studies on interoception - your body’s built-in ability to sense hunger, fullness, and satisfaction - show that repeated pressure to eat and restriction both disrupt a child’s ability to respond to their own internal cues.
And it’s not because they were born that way. But because those cues get overridden, repeatedly, and ultimately they disconnect from listening to them.
This is something I’ve watched play out over and over, with parents that think that’s just how their child is, or something is wrong with them.
But it’s not. Your child is capable of listening to their body and self-regulating. You just need the right approach to help them.
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