143X4 Every relationship in your life is defined by 143x4 143 as most people know is I Love You.

Building on this 143X4 is I Love You, I want You, I Miss You, and I Need You. Every relationship; friends, family, co-workers, and anyone who is in you life needs to be loved, wanted, missed, and needed by you in order to have a healthy relationship with that person.

05/25/2026

Every relationship reaches a difficult stage where emotions feel uncontrollable, problems seem endless, and the future suddenly appears uncertain. During those moments, two people must choose whether they will allow disappointment to create distance between them or continue fighting for the love they once believed in. Real love is not about never experiencing conflict or pain; it is about learning how to repair the relationship after difficult moments instead of abandoning it when life becomes challenging. The strongest relationships are built on patience, commitment, and understanding, rather than perfection. They survive because both people decide their connection is more important than pride, and because their loyalty remains stronger than temporary frustration. Every challenge creates an opportunity to communicate better, grow closer, and understand each other more deeply. When couples remember they are on the same team, even the hardest situations eventually pass. Love is about facing problems together and refusing to let temporary emotions destroy something meaningful built through trust, support, and time.

05/24/2026

Today my heart was heavy at church. I got on my knees to pray. Silently I asked God, “how many times do I forgive someone who continues to wrong me & hurt my heart?” Tears fell from my eyes as I heard a voice come from my heart, “how many times have I forgiven you?” 143x4💖

03/22/2026

It has been sometime since I posted to this platform. To be honest I’ve been struggling with the terms “I love you” and the actions not matching those words. Perhaps it is my belief that there is no such thing as unconditional love. All love has conditions, expectations, and limits whether they are spoken or not. Can you really expect someone to continue to love you totally when your actions continue to hurt them? When “I’m sorry” becomes second nature for actions you know are not going to change and at some point have become a habit. Maybe when actions & words no longer align your limit has been reached so set up the condition to love but from a distance, keeping your heart a little guarded. You don’t stop loving them but it changes.

03/26/2024

Origin of 143x4: About 15 years ago and I was watching "The Story of Us" and they said 143. Which anyone who is a part of the pager generation knows 143 is "I love you". I started thinking, what defines a relationship you need in your life... I love you, I want you (in my life), I need you (in my life) and I miss you (when you're not around). 143x4 was born! Since that day I've used this to help me with the relationships in my life and shared it with so many people. I even went so far as to have a tattoo with it on me (along with a close friend it is this account's profile picture). It is my license plate and a great conversation starter. I see more and more posts using the terms (love, want, miss and need) which makes me feel great!

03/13/2024

Self love is the hardest love to give but the one that is needed the most. We so often give our love to those who are undeserving or unappreciative. We find it difficult to love ourselves. Even if you aren’t able to love your whole self at the moment. Find one thing about yourself to love everyday.

05/01/2023

The windshield is larger than the rear view mirror for a reason. Keep looking forward! 143x4💖

09/28/2022

What does Love mean to you?

09/13/2022

Are all of the relationships in your life healthy relationships?

09/13/2022

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