01/04/2017
Last month, I tried an experiment. After feeling like I *wished* I could break free from needing to check FB every day, I finally gave it a try. "What if I get a work-related message?!" had always been my big excuse whenever I thought about taking a break before.
Then I read a book called "Deep Work," which makes a compelling case for cultivating the kind of focus that's necessary to make a sustained and profound contribution as a knowledge worker. (I'm not *just* a knowledge worker, but I'm aspiring to bring that aspect of my work forward in 2017 and beyond. And depth is very important for healing work, too.) The author proposed a challenge for people like me who were afraid to sign off of FB.
"Try it for a month," he said. And, crucially, "don't announce to anyone that you're taking a break! Test it out and see what happens."
There were a couple of hiccups, and I did pop in to check my messages every few days. So it wasn't a "perfect" experiment...but it was enough to show me the path forward. I spent SO much less time on FB.
Most importantly, I felt so much better. And contrary to my fears, I had a greater number of new clients reach out to me during my FB break than I'd had for the three preceding months!
Moving forward, I plan to continue this scaled-back approach to social media. As wonderful as it's been for Psyche & Soma in the past, I think the price that it asks me to pay in terms of the depth of my focus is just too high to keep going in the same way that I used to. You can always reach me via email, or through the "Contact" tab that will be debuting (soon!) on the new website. If you enjoy reading my writing, you can keep up with it by subscribing to my newsletter. (And I hope that by choosing to say "No" to lots of social media posting, I'll be able to say a bigger "Yes" to putting forth a more substantive body of writing that will make a bigger impact.)
So, this isn't a gauche "goodbye, Facebook!" post.... It's my way of saying "thank you" to everyone who has made this space so compelling to me over the years, and a way of letting you know not to worry when you don't see me posting or replying here as often. It's also a way to encourage you to connect with me in other ways, as my goal is to become slower and slower to respond on FB as it becomes less and less a part of my routine.
I'm wishing you all kinds of good things in 2017 and hope to stay connected in ways that will enrich us all.