06/19/2026
Father's Day isn't a celebration for everyone.
For some, it's a day filled with gratitude. For others, it's layered with grief, distance, unanswered questions, or memories they still carry in their bodies.
One of the hardest truths I've learned is this: hurt people hurt people. Understanding where someone's wounds came from doesn't excuse the harm they caused, but it can open the door to something different than resentment. It can open the door to compassion, boundaries, and, ultimately, freedom.
The deepest terrain work isn't about changing the past. It's about recognizing the patterns we inherited and deciding they end with us.
You can hold compassion and accountability in the same two hands. You can understand someone's story without allowing it to become your future.
If today is a day of uncomplicated joy, celebrate loudly. If it's a quiet, complicated ache, know that you're not alone.
Sometimes the greatest gift we can give the next generation is refusing to pass the wound forward.