04/10/2020
There’s no doubt about it: we’re living in a weird time. All the stressors, fears, and unknowns are taking a toll on us all and many of our possible points of safety - community, connection, nature, job/purpose, self-care routines - are limited or in disarray. If you’re finding comfort and enjoyment in food right now, first and foremost: THANK GOD YOU HAVE FOOD. I’m so glad you have a way to deal with the chaos.
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Second, food is pleasurable. It’s supposed to be that way. Diet culture would have us believe that if we eat to soothe difficult emotions, we’re “out of control” or “have no willpower,” which is a bunch of baloney.
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Of course, food won’t change our circumstances and we can’t expect it to. It can comfort us in the short-term, but ultimately we’ll still have to deal with those challenging emotions (and maybe a stomach ache if we ate to uncomfortable fullness), so it’s a valuable skill to be able to assess needs when emotions are running high. “What do I need right now? Food? A hug? To talk to someone? A nap? A walk in fresh air?” This is not a means to distract yourself from food in order to eat less - EATING IS ALWAYS AN OPTION. Sometimes a few warm cookies and a glass of milk 100% help me feel better about life. If that’s the need, eat, enjoy, and move on. But connecting to your needs first can help you choose the tool that will work best for you in that moment. It might be food, or it might be something else.
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Keep taking care of yourself, whatever that looks like. ✨