Chudney Drew Counseling With Intention

Chudney Drew Counseling With Intention I’m Chudney Drew, a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor & the founder of Counseling With Intention.

I’m here to walk alongside individuals as they navigate life’s challenges, offering support, understanding, and practical tools for healing.

09/02/2026

Before you let something disturb your peace, learn to ask one question: who told me?

Consider the source.

08/24/2026

Because everybody in your corner doesn’t necessarily need to be in your ear. Having people who love you AND have good sense?That matters.

What about your village…do they have good sense?

08/10/2026

Maybe it’s not that there aren’t any good men out there.

Maybe the better question is “would the kind of man you actually want even be in the places you keep looking?”

And listen, I’m not judging because some of us go to work, Target and back home.

But it’s worth thinking about.

Follow me for more conversations that make you look at things a little differently.

08/04/2026

We often think an apology is what repairs a relationship.

But sometimes what the other person is really longing for is to know you understand what it was like to experience you.

It’s hard to move on from something that was never acknowledged.

An apology and acknowledgment aren’t always the same thing.

I’d love to know your thoughts.

07/27/2026

For years I wore a label like it was tailored just for me until I realized it never belonged to me.

07/16/2026

There was a time in my own marriage when I thought if we could just communicate better, everything else would fall into place.

What I’ve learned is that communication matters, but security changes everything.

When you know your heart is safe with someone, it’s easier to be honest. It’s easier to be vulnerable. It’s easier to admit when you’re hurt, afraid, or wrong. And when you don’t feel safe, even the simplest conversation can feel like a risk.

This isn’t just something I’ve learned as a therapist. It’s something I’ve had to learn as a wife.

I’m still growing in this, too.

Have you ever been in a relationship where you felt completely safe to be yourself?

07/13/2026

Some people don’t deserve unlimited access to your thoughts. I know what it’s like to replay conversations, question yourself, and carry people who never carried you. Protect your peace. Sometimes healing starts with an eviction notice. 💜


07/11/2026

My heart has been heavy since hearing about Nolan Wells, and I know I’m not the only parent feeling that way. As parents, we don’t always need someone to have the answers. Sometimes we just need a safe place where our fears are understood and our hearts have room to breathe. That’s the space I hope to offer. 🤎 If this space feels like something you need, you can register using the link in my bio.

07/08/2026

My heart has been heavy since hearing about Nolan Wells. As both a therapist and the mother of a Black son and daughter who attend school in predominantly white spaces, I know many parents are carrying fear, grief, and unanswered questions.

If that’s you, I’d love to hold space for you. Through Counseling With Intention, I’m offering two free Parent Support Circles for African American parents and parents raising Black children. Whether you join virtually or in person, my hope is that you’ll leave feeling heard, supported, and better equipped to support your child through moments like this.

Registration is required.

Please see the flyer for details and to reserve your spot.

07/06/2026

The people around you should make it easier to be yourself, not harder.

If you consistently leave interactions feeling drained, anxious, or like you have to perform to be accepted, don’t ignore that. Your body is often picking up on what your mind is trying to rationalize.

It took me 49 years to realize that protecting my peace sometimes meant limiting access and not because I didn’t care about people, but because I finally started caring more about myself, too.

Not every relationship is meant to be carried forever. And choosing yourself isn’t selfish, but healthy❤️

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1932 Weddington Road
Weddington, NC
28104

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