06/10/2026
Well-being Wednesdays w/ Tami
June 10, 2026
Life will bring us challenges for us to overcome. If practicing mindfulness is one of the best tools to build resilience, what exactly does that mean? Being mindful is like our internal pause button, where we choose to observe instead of reacting immediately. When we are in the moment, we see what is actually happening right now. This conscious effort to let go of the past and our worries for the future helps us see what is actually unfolding in front of us. Viewing the moment without judgment allows us to see things as they currently are, not how they could potentially end up. Instead of our initial emotional reaction, this allows us to react with intention.
How does being mindful build resilience?
• Acknowledging our emotions without feeling overwhelmed
• Pausing keeps us from reacting impulsively
• Observing without judgment helps us to adapt more easily
• Approaching with an open mind allows for innovative solutions
• Disrupting negative thoughts and assumptions by being in the moment
• Ruminating on past struggles and mistakes is quieted
• Breathing with intention lowers the stress response in the body
• Learning to effectively deal with uncomfortable emotions
• Acknowledging discomfort without letting it define us
• Realizing that this moment is temporary
While things may feel intense, we can realize that this is just a moment and things will not always be this way. Our ability to adapt and recover from all that life brings sometimes requires a switch in our thinking. However, the tools of pausing, observing and regulating our reactions may require practice but are within our reach. Instead of feeling powerless to our reactions, learning to pause and process the moment for what it truly is can be valuable in building our resilience.
The RAIN acronym is a helpful tool to help us process difficult emotions. It begins with Recognizing and naming what we are feeling. Next, we Allow the feeling without judgment. Then, we Investigate our reaction with kindness. Finally, we Nurture ourselves with compassion. If you are interested in learning more about the RAIN approach to building mindful resilience, this 6-minute video will help.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JfYhupTQVNE