10/14/2026
Your baby is spitting up, breastfeeding hurts, and now you’ve been referred for tongue and lip ties.
Okay, but how does it all fit together?
One provider may notice the tie. Mom is experiencing painful feeds. There are digestive concerns, body tension, and a baby who needs help settling.
What we’re not going to do is expect one finding or one procedure to explain every piece.
First, show me the feed.
I want to see what happens together, what changes with support, and what still needs attention. A release may belong in the plan. But I want to know what we’re asking it to improve.
Save this question for your next appointment:
“What are we asking the release to improve, and what else needs support?” 🤍
Send this to the person navigating feeding decisions with you.
If you’re new here, I’m Dana, a pediatric OT, infant feeding therapist, and mom. I’m the one asking, “Okay, but what else is going on?” Follow along. We’re connecting the dots for baby AND Mom.
baby feeding problems • tongue tie • breastfeeding pain • baby spitting up