Daybreak Doulas

Daybreak Doulas Support for every birth & postpartum in Wilmington NC & surrounding areas!

Maybe it’s felt like an uphill battle to get to this moment🧗‍♀️ or maybe it unfolded like a roller coaster faster than y...
06/12/2026

Maybe it’s felt like an uphill battle to get to this moment🧗‍♀️ or maybe it unfolded like a roller coaster faster than you ever expected🎢… the moment you’re body changed from transition into pushing out your baby…& the moment you realized this is really happening- you’re meeting your baby!💫

💪🏽The pushing phase of birth can last between and up to 1-3 hrs. The cervix is fully dilated + effaced (although being a 10 doesn’t necessarily mean it’s time to push and even if you’re not at 10 yet you can still feel those “pushy urges” & the cervix can dilate in seconds!), and the uterus begins pushing the baby down into the pelvis. You may feel the “urge to push” & work with contractions to push baby out. Contractions may space out a little and you may even drift off and rest a few minutes in-between contractions. You may even experience a surge of adrenaline that will help you have enough energy to birth your baby. After so much time having to let the contractions wash over you, you may be surprised it actually might feel good to be able to finally do something!

🐣Once your baby actually begins crowing (the head is visible and remains visible in between contractions), the rest of their body will often follow in just a few pushes. Baby’s head may move forward with a push and then actually move back- this is a good thing and doesn’t mean you are going backwards. Baby is making their way & may need to change position. The actual birth is the fastest part of the entire process and typically lasts around 1-10 minutes.

During pushing we can help you find a position that YOU feel most comfortable & confident in, educate in the moment, manning your playlist, holding your leg (or your hand or your head & wiping your brow), or giving your partner that look that you’re doing incredible! Whether you need some coaching, the whole team cheering you on or you’d rather have more silence so you can go inward, your doula is watching you, mirroring you & helping the room follow your lead! 🤍

There’s soo much more info & nuances when it comes to pushing & that’s just one of the reasons why we love our prenatal meetings with our families!

↪️next up the delivery of the placenta!

Next time you see a cherry🍒remember…🍒 your baby is the size of a cherry at 9 weeks gestation 🥹🍒eating cherries in pregna...
06/08/2026

Next time you see a cherry🍒remember…

🍒 your baby is the size of a cherry at 9 weeks gestation 🥹

🍒eating cherries in pregnancy gives you the benefits of fiber to keep things moving😉, potassium to help blood circulation + blood pressure ♥️, antioxidants that help reduce swelling🙌🏼 & melatonin to help with pregnancy insomnia!😴

🍒your baby’s stomach is the size of a cherry their very first day of life! If you’re wanting to breastfeed, remember your body is already making those powerful drops of colostrum they need!☺️

So drink up a glass of cherry juice as you’re winding down in the evening or grab a bowl full of cherries for the perfect snack this summer…our biggest tip is to make sure you at least eat them by the beach if you can🌊😉🍒

Each and every family stays forever in our hearts as doulas and this one, I will truly never forget witnessing her stren...
05/29/2026

Each and every family stays forever in our hearts as doulas and this one, I will truly never forget witnessing her strength through the unexpected. I don’t think I can fully put into words just how strong this mom is. So grateful life had us cross paths and to have been welcomed into her space to support her and her family in such a critical time. Thank you again, Tori for such kind words & sharing your story with others.🤍

Maybe the “redemption” you’re searching for isn’t in your next birth but in the way you honor and give grace to yourself...
05/29/2026

Maybe the “redemption” you’re searching for isn’t in your next birth but in the way you honor and give grace to yourself and your previous birth story instead of turning the blame inward.

“If I had only been more educated.”
“If I had only advocated for myself.”
“If I had only been stronger.”

When we try to force ourselves to live up to an unrealistic standard, we trap ourselves in a cycle of grief and guilt while drawing a line between an outcome and our worth.

Birth is wildly unpredictable. Even with the best planning, education and team…it can still take unexpected turns leaving your brain just trying to protect itself searching for a reason to make sense of what happened.

So why even hire a doula then?

Instead of viewing doula support as a shield, view it as an anchor. We can’t shield you from birth trauma (I promise you we wish we could). However, there’s a huge difference between going through scary things happening to you alone vs with someone in your corner that sees you, holds you however you are feeling and fiercely supports you.

Education, informed decisions, choosing a great support team and thinking of things you’d like to go/do differently this time are all wonderful things but we really have to dig deeper within ourselves, give ourselves space to grieve, and let go of the idea that a certain circumstance in birth will redeem us. It’s unfair to put that pressure on yourself and your baby.

Let’s focus less on a “perfect do over” and more on what makes you feel safe, respected and informed. You didn’t fail the previous time and you don’t need a perfect birth to be whole!📢

You may not be able to control labor & birth but you deserve an anchor in the storm.🤍

💡Our biggest tip to anyone that’s experienced birth trauma or difficult/complex feelings about their birth is finding a Perinatal Mental Health Therapist who specializes in trauma. Look for professionals who are certified in perinatal mental health (PMH-C). You are not alone & we are always here to help however we can!🫶🏼

📞 Soo when do I call my doula again!? 🤗 Your doula team is your unwavering support system, here for you every step of th...
05/27/2026

📞 Soo when do I call my doula again!? 🤗 Your doula team is your unwavering support system, here for you every step of the way! At Daybreak you are paired with two amazing doulas who are both in your corner for anything you need! Reach out whenever you have questions, big or small.

Feeling unsure after a care provider appointment?
Your doula is just a call away to help clarify things and provide that comforting reassurance you need.⁠ ⁠

When you sense labor’s on the horizon, your doula’s got your back. From offering encouragement to helping you navigate early labor signs, we’re here to guide you
through this incredible journey.💫🌸⁠ ⁠

Remember, there’s no ‘right’ or ‘wrong’ time to call. We’re all about supporting you through every moment -the joyful, the uncertain and everything in between.💕

5 words that signal to us you’re most likely meeting your baby soon? “I can’t do this anymore.”🌀The transition phase of ...
05/26/2026

5 words that signal to us you’re most likely meeting your baby soon? “I can’t do this anymore.”

🌀The transition phase of labor is the shortest (30min to 2hrs) but most intense phase of labor. Your body is dilating from about 7-10cm and contractions are about 2 min apart. The hormonal cocktail your body’s producing may have you feeling nauseous, panicky, doubting yourself or feeling like you want to run away, irritatable, hot flashes/temp changes and body shakes. It really can feel like you’re spiraling after finally getting used to active labor.

😨While your body is making the shift from dilating fully to your baby descending, you may feel intense urges like you’re having an uncontrollable bowel movement or like you want to push- which is due to your baby’s head coming down!

😮‍💨During this phase we get to see our clients go farther than they ever thought they could! This phase is an intense sensory experience and it’s the time to surrender, lean on your partner & team’s encouragement, put all your focus on deep horse lip breathing and low guttural moan.

On our end, we may be replenishing your cool cloth, helping you stay grounded, reassuring your partner, maybe we’ll have a pep talk or just be the space for you to express frustration on because as amazing as this phase is, when your in it (& after all the hard work of labor you’ve done) it can feel really tough too. It is okay to feel whatever you are feeling!

It’s easy to let doubt creep in & forget this is almost over. You are safe. There is no one stronger than you are in this moment. There’s no shame here. Be in your body, be your truest and fullest self. This is where the team you’ve chosen is most important & we are all here for YOU.💪🏽

Maybe you need all 4 & that’s okay!😊 Take what you need🤍
05/19/2026

Maybe you need all 4 & that’s okay!😊

Take what you need🤍

We’ll let you in on a little doula secret 🤫 the power isn’t actually in the physical paper “plan” itself🫢(& here at Dayb...
05/13/2026

We’ll let you in on a little doula secret 🤫 the power isn’t actually in the physical paper “plan” itself🫢(& here at Daybreak, we don’t even call that paper most people typically think of a “birth plan” but a Birth Preferences List that is usually always just 1 page)

The process of “birth planning” and what makes it so powerful is it’s about discovering what feels right for you and reflects your values, preferences, and hopes.

Embrace this time as an opportunity to connect with yourself, your partner, and your baby on a profound level.🤍

We say it over and over again but this is exactly why we love (and are so passionate about) what we do! Each family has ...
04/14/2026

We say it over and over again but this is exactly why we love (and are so passionate about) what we do! Each family has a unique story and we feel so honored to be able to be welcomed into this special time in your lives to support you!

Thank you, Megan, for not only leaving such a sweet review of us but for sharing your story so openly and honestly for others that are searching for doula support!🤍

If you’re ready to learn more about our services fill out our contact form on our website or shoot us a dm and we will be more than happy to talk more about what makes Daybreak so special- We can’t wait to hear from you!🫶🏼

“Since you see this every day... what is the ONE piece of advice you can give me?” We figured they were probably waiting...
04/09/2026

“Since you see this every day... what is the ONE piece of advice you can give me?”

We figured they were probably waiting for a secret labor hack or a list of “must-have” baby gadgets.

We looked at them and realized that all the professional training in the world doesn’t compare to the power of one simple and honest truth.

We told them, “We actually have nothing, other than this. You are going to do a great job. All you can do is the best you can and that is *exactly* what your baby needs.”

As doulas, we spend so much time preparing families for the “how-to,” but the most important thing we can ever teach is the “you’ve got this.”

The longer we do this work, the more we realize how much pressure is put on parents to “optimize” every moment.

In planning for the “perfect” scenario, what is often forgotten is trusting the person in the center of it all. You.🥹

So, if you’re scrolling feeling totally overwhelmed by the “shoulds” or the “what-ifs,” let this be your permission to take a deep breath.

There is no secret.
There is just you,
doing your best for you and your baby,
and that is the most beautiful thing.

You’ve got this (and we’re always in your corner).🤍

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