Riding Far, LLC

Riding Far, LLC Transformative Experiences for Horses and Riders All riders, regardless of experience or discipline, meet challenges along the way. Paul T. Haefner. in Physics.

Riding Far, LLC was founded over 20 years ago with a simple idea that riders could benefit from a better understanding of themselves, their horses, and how to create change. We help riders move through these challenges. This is more than your typical sport psychology or horse training. We have dedicated ourselves to create transformative experiences for equestrians and horses through compassionate

and expert education, mentorship and guidance. We meet every rider and horse where they are and create deeply personal and meaningful experiences. Our work inspires change where traditional approaches have often failed. We ground ourselves in an innovative integration of modern human psychology and horsemanship, drawing inspiration from a wide range of human psychological disciplines and the best of classical and modern horsemanship including equine ethology and biomechanics. We are passionate about our own personal and professional growth in order to bring our clients current, comprehensive, informed, and inspired guidance. PhD

Dr. Haefner is a licensed clinical and sport psychologist in private practice in Northern Virginia with more than 30 years of professional experience. In addition to his Ph.D. in Clinical Psychology, Dr. Haefner is a Certified Clinical Hypnotherapist and a Certified Master Practitioner of Neuro-linguistic Programming. He also holds a B.S. In his practice, he provides personal/professional development, sport psychology consultation, and a broad range of other therapeutic services to adults, adolescents and children. An avid equestrian since his childhood, Dr. Haefner has combined his love for horses and lifelong equestrian experience with his knowledge of human psychology in order to help people transform themselves and their relationships with their horses. He enjoys working with riders of all levels and disciplines tackling the many and varied challenges that arise along the way. He helps riders transform self-doubt into confidence, fear into courage, distractibility into focused concentration, and pressure and anxiety into effective performance. In addition to helping people with their riding goals, Dr. Haefner uses the unique relationship between people and their equine partners to help people attain their own personal growth goals such as increased self-confidence, assertiveness, trust, intimacy and balance in relationships. Dr. Haefner is passionate about learning. He is committed to integrating newly acquired knowledge and skills into his work with riders. His most recent learning venture into interpersonal neurobiology has led to Riding Far to partner with Neurofficient to offer their clients neurofeedback brain training. Dr. Haefner is also a steadfast advocate for research in the field of human-horse interaction. He assisted in founding the Research Committee for the Equine Assisted Growth and Learning Association. He served on the Board of Directors of the Horses and Humans Research Foundation (HHRF), having been honored to serve as President of the Board for three of those years. He continues his advocacy for research through his role as Scientific Advisor for HHRF. Dr. Haefner is passionate about teaching. He has taught every age and level from kindergarten to graduate school. He has served on the staff/faculties of The Hill School, Catholic Memorial High School, The Fielding Institute, The Lab School of Washington, and The Catholic University of America. He dedicated to educating riding instructors and trainers, as well as riders, about the psychology of teaching and learning. His goal is to help instructors and trainers become more effective teachers and riders become more effective learners. Justin Haefner

Justin Haefner is a professional trainer who specializes in the training and handling of young performance jumpers. He is the full time Trainer of Young and Developing Horses at St. Bride’s Farm where he focuses on giving international caliber jumping horses the best foundation possible for their later life on the international show circuit. Justin believes it is essential to understand how horses’ bodies move and function in order to effectively train horses. In his continuous pursuit of deeper knowledge of equine physiology and biomechanics, Justin is a student at the Vluggen Institute of Equine Osteopathy and Education. Justin is also committed to transforming the experiences of horses and their riders through his work with Dr. Haefner in Riding Far, LLC. He contributes his knowledge of the horse’s psychology and physiology to create a well-rounded and unique perspective on the relationship between horse and rider. The synergistic, collaborative combination of Justin’s training and horsemanship experience with Dr. Haefner’s experience helping people change creates powerful opportunities for riders to transform their relationships with themselves and their horse in large and small ways. Justin comes from a background in vaquero style natural horsemanship, spending his childhood highly interested in creating and understanding deep connections with horses. Time spent starting young horses, foxhunting, and dabbling in many different disciplines gave him a base to understand key elements of a horse’s solid foundation. His focus on bodywork and anatomy/biomechanics goes hand in hand with his deep interest in classical dressage. His focus with every horse, no matter their discipline, is to gift them with strength of mind, body and emotion. Much of his work is based on the teaching and philosophy passed down by masters such as Nuno Oliveira. While patiently and steadfastly working to positively influence the equestrian world, Justin is deeply committed to continue his personal education. He hopes to return to Portugal where he spent time riding at the Centro Equestre Leziria Grande with the Valença’s, and continued lessons with Patrick King. His interests are in improving his own biomechanics and posture as a rider, as well as knowledge of horse and human physiology, training through classical philosophy, and further understanding and ability in equine bodywork.

June is shaping up to be a busy month.Whether you're looking for conversation, competition, hands-on learning, or simply...
06/05/2026

June is shaping up to be a busy month.

Whether you're looking for conversation, competition, hands-on learning, or simply a chance to spend time around thoughtful horse people, we'd love to have you join us.

We're looking forward to welcoming Pippa Callanan later this month and heading to Oak Spring Equestrian Maryland Working Equitation schooling show - we're taking Artie and Kola - if you're going to be there please come and say hi, we'd love to meet you.

More information and sign-up links can be found in the Events section of our page or in the Linktree in our bio.

We look forward to seeing you this month.

06/03/2026

Hay pillow. Breakfast in bed.
We spend a lot of time talking about performance and training but there’s value in the quiet moments too.

06/02/2026

I've come to appreciate a progression that helps me connect today's ride to the horse I'm trying to develop six months from now.
It's one of the things I value most about riding with Pippa Callanan, and one of the reasons I'm looking forward to having her back at the farm in a few weeks.
Come audit the clinic and experience for yourself.

One of the things we enjoy about creating intentions each week is that they help guide our attention.Not to what we can ...
06/01/2026

One of the things we enjoy about creating intentions each week is that they help guide our attention.

Not to what we can control.

But to how we want to navigate whatever the week puts in front of us.

These intentions came from today's Facebook Live conversation about gratitude, artistry, and the reality that life rarely unfolds exactly as we expect it to.

This week's intentions:

Dr. Paul's intention is openness to all possibilities.

Justin's intention is to explore the art in my day-to-day.

What intention will guide you through the week ahead?

📸 Erin Gilmore Photography

06/01/2026

Thanks for joining our exclusive live broadcast. Feel free to share your questions and interact with other participants in the chat.

05/31/2026

Most people don't get into trouble because their playground is too small.
They get into trouble because they make it too big before they're ready.
Whether it's leaving the yard, going to a show, or learning something new, progress comes from finding an edge where you and your horse can still think, learn, and grow.
Then, little by little, the playground gets bigger.
That's how we expand what's possible.

Psych Saturday: The Child in the Saddle I was four, maybe five years old. We were at church, which, as any four year old...
05/30/2026

Psych Saturday: The Child in the Saddle

I was four, maybe five years old. We were at church, which, as any four year old could tell you, is not an experience designed with four year olds in mind.

I could not sit still.

Quite honestly, I am not sure I was actually capable of sitting still.

When the family returned home after services, I found myself in time out. I know my parents were well intentioned, trying to teach me self control. Yet it had a different impact than they intended.

What I did not understand then, and what I would spend a good portion of my adult life working out, was that an expectation had been set that I simply could not meet. Not because I was defiant. Not because I was bad. But because of my level of development and maturity on that particular Sunday morning.

The bar was set at a height I could not reach, resulting in pressure. Pressure to control the behavior. Pressure to contain what could not be contained.

I have been thinking about this a great deal lately.

Several clients this week found themselves in similar territory, tracing the patterns of early relationships forward into their present lives and, in more than a few cases, all the way into the saddle.

It is one of the quieter revelations in this work. The way we learn to relate to authority, to expectation, to the gap between what is asked and what is possible, does not stay in childhood. It travels with us.

It shows up in how we respond when our boss sets an impossible deadline. It shows up in how we feel when our partner needs something we do not know how to give. And it shows up, reliably and sometimes painfully, in our relationships with our trainers and how we ride.
When I reflect on my early years with horses, I can see it clearly now. I spent a great deal of time trying to control behavior that was not controllable. I set expectations that did not account for the nature of the horse in front of me, for their age, their experience, or their particular nervous system on that particular day.

When they could not reach the bar I set, I applied more pressure.

I was not being cruel. I was doing what had been modeled for me, in church pews and elsewhere. Control the uncontrollable. Contain what cannot be contained.

What I was inadvertently doing was recreating, in the arena, a dynamic I had first experienced as a small child.

Different players. Same script.

This is not an indictment of our well intentioned parents, nor is it a reason for self criticism. It is an invitation for curiosity.

The patterns we carry are not character flaws. They are strategies we developed to navigate a world that sometimes asked more of us than we could give. They made sense once. They may not make sense now.

The question worth sitting with, whether you are in the saddle or not, is this:
Whose expectations am I riding with today?

Are they mine?

Are they my horse’s?

Or do they belong to someone, or something, much further back down the road?

Your horse will tell you if you are willing to listen. They are remarkably honest about what is being asked of them, and whether it is something they can actually do. ~ Paul

05/29/2026

At Riding Far, we’re intentional about every aspect of the horse’s welfare, including what goes in the feed tub.

Karen Engel explains the benefits of Triple Crown StressFree and how a forage based, highly digestible approach supports the whole horse.

Because the work doesn’t just start under saddle.
A lot of it starts long before that.

05/28/2026

"The son of 2 shrinks....."

I never really liked to teach. Well, not until recently.Early on, I didn’t feel like I had much to offer, so I would ove...
05/27/2026

I never really liked to teach. Well, not until recently.

Early on, I didn’t feel like I had much to offer, so I would overcompensate. I’d try to leave someone with a month’s worth of work in an hour, and none of it would stick. I would see an opportunity for change, then try to force that change to happen. In horses and in life, that doesn’t work, but it can be hard to remember when you’re green and lack faith in the process.

It’s been the long list of teachers in my life who have brought me to where I am today. They inspired me and sparked the excitement of sharing information, to the point where teaching has now become one of the most important parts of my daily life.

Each day, my assistant, Averi, and I spend a lot of time discussing the big picture, the process, and doing the work. Each week, I teach as many as six lessons to owners of horses in training, along with four or so more to those trailering in.

The joy I find these days is not in feeling like I know it all or needing to put what I do know onto others. What I love is being able to nurture relationships, plant seeds, and watch them grow over time.

Every day, I try to practice a beginner’s mind. I put pieces together for myself and study in the lab of daily life, applying what I’ve learned from teachers and books with the horses I get to work with each day.

When I teach, it is the joy of learning that I wish to spread. The love of horses. A sense of gratitude and awe for the life we are fortunate enough to live.

If I have been fortunate enough to cross your path, whether in the past, present, or future, know that this is my wish.

Take care and enjoy the ride.
~Justin

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