06/03/2026
I found a mailbox filled with strangers’ hopes, dreams, heartbreaks, prayers, secrets, and stories.
Four years ago today, I walked nearly two miles down an empty stretch of beach to this mailbox hidden in the dunes. Most women will never walk to the Kindred Spirits Mailbox. I want to walk there with you, Step Sister. In fact, I think it may become the heart of the very first Step Sisters Gathering.
At the time, I had no idea that walk would stay with me for years. Inside the mailbox are journals filled with the stories of complete strangers. I sat on a weathered bench and started reading. Somewhere between the pages, I stopped seeing strangers and started seeing pieces of myself. The fears. The losses. The hope. The courage to keep going.
I remember sitting there thinking, I wish I could bring a group of women here someday. The funny thing is, Step Sisters didn’t even exist yet. Today, it does.
Now, four years later, I’m exploring the possibility of bringing a small group of Step Sisters back to that very place. Not because it’s a tourist attraction, and not because it’s a mailbox. Because I can’t stop imagining what it would be like to experience it together.
To make that long walk down the beach.
To sit on those benches.
To read the stories.
To reflect on our own.
To leave something behind for another woman to find.
Then later that evening, gathered around a fire or sitting beside the ocean, talking about the words that moved us most and the stories we can’t stop thinking about.
The beach will be beautiful. The house will be beautiful. But I have a feeling the thing we’ll remember most is how we felt. Seen. Connected. Reminded that none of us are walking alone. To me, that feels like the heart of Step Sisters. 💜
If you’ve been following along as I explore the possibility of a Step Sisters Gathering, this is the place I can’t stop thinking about.
And if this dream becomes reality, I have a feeling this little mailbox hidden in the dunes on the coast of NC may end up being the part we remember forever.
I’m with you every step. 💜