Hope for Hearts - CHD Awareness

Hope for Hearts - CHD Awareness Hope for Hearts is a 501c3 Non-Profit dedicated to providing - information, support, and resources to those affected by a Congenital Heart Defects.

Aidan was born in August 2004, with an undetected heart defect. He was our first born, a beautiful and what we thought healthy baby boy. At the hospital my husband and I had some concerns about Aidan and questioned; his non-eating­ habit, color and coldness of skin, we were told of a murmur they heard and that they would watch it. We were ignored, blown off and treated as "new and over protective

parents". Trusting the professionals we took Aidan home. Three hours after discharge is when our lives changed forever! Aidan woke up crying hysterically, as a first time mom I tried comforting him, changing his diaper and feeding him. After a few more attempts and nothing calming him,I called my mom. I began telling her that I thought Aidan was allergic to his formula or something for I could hear gurgling. My mom asked, if "Aidan was breathing?" I said, yes and she yelled,"I'm on my way". I screamed to my husband who was napping that something was wrong with Aidan, within minutes Aidan's coloring became flush and he had red streaks all over his body. As we were walking out the door to take
him to the hospital my mom was pullingup and together we took Aidan to the emergency room. After four and a half hours of numerous tests, lab work and pokes they still did not know what was wrong with our baby. The Doctor then called the nearest hospital with a Neonatal Unit and it was that Doctorwho diagnosed our sons' heart defect over the phone and immediately sent his transport team and medicine Aidan needed to stay alive. Upon arrival at the second hospital we meet with the cardiologist and were told that Aidan had been "REVIVED" during transport, that he was very, very sick
and of his heart defect; Hypoplastic Left Heart Syndrome (HLHS). HLHS is one of the most complex and severe cardiac defects and remains the most challenging to manage of all congenital heart defects (CHDs). Aidan was born with "half a heart" for his left side (the pumping chamber) was so severely underdeveloped, resulting in a situation where the left side of the heart is completely unable to support the circulation needed by the body's organs. If he was a candidate he would
undergoa series of 3 open-heart surgeries before the age of three and or need a heart transplant. We were devastated! Forty-five minuteslater we were allowed to see Aidan ,a sight forever etched in our minds. Our precious baby had so many wiresand tubes attached to him, so many lights, monitors, nurses, and Doctor's surrounding him. Our priest came and Baptized Aidan and gave him the Anointing of the Sick, quickly then after he was transported to a third hospital. Aidan wa transported to Children's Hospital of Michigan where they were equipped to care for him and his "special" heart. After a week and a half of uncertainty things began looking better. Aidan's test results were coming back positive and he soon became a candidate for the surgery. The 1st surgery, the Norwood was performed on September 1, 2004.Thankfully and Lord willing he was home 2 weeks later. Aidan came home with a feeding tube which he only needed a week also with oxygen which continued until after his second surgery. Aidan remained homebound, only leaving the house for doctor appointments until after the second surgery due to the high risk of infection. Aidan had the 2nd surgery, the Hemi-Fontan done at ten months of age (normally done between4-6 months of age) due to some wheezing and congestion. The Hemi-Fontan was performed on June 16, 2005. Again thankfully and Lord willing he was home 6-days later. Aidan no longer needed the extra oxygen! After a 6 week recovery all restrictions were lifted and Aidan was allowed out into the "WORLD". Aidan is a thriving, fun, energetic twenty month old that loves life and everyone around him. He has the biggest, brightest brown eyes and a smile that will light up any room. Through Aidan's eyes and heart we have learned how precious life is; we've learned to love more, give more, be more patient and are definitely more
faithful. We live one day at a time and do NOT take anything for granted. Simply put, we have become better people! Although we would never wish this journey on anyone we do NOT regret the lessons instilled within us. As proud, honored, dedicated and determined parents of a child with a heart defect it is our responsibility to do whatever we can in fighting for the cause. It is very important to our family that we tell the world about Aidan, our "MIRACLE", hoping to raise awareness about congenital heart defects. Raising awareness is important on many levels - it will provide hope for families of CHD survivors and comfort to those whose loved ones have lost their battles; it
will inform the public about symptoms of CHD's and possibly save lives. Aidan showed several symptoms of having a cardiac problem and his little body was going into shock before being discharged from the hospital. HLHS is not correctable but can be treated with the series of three reconstructive surgeries or heart transplantation. The surgeries have been around for about 26 years or so and with medical technologies and advancements improving every day, that alone gives Aidan, his heart buddies and us - HOPE. Aidan will require lifelong follow-ups by his cardiologist, will require some heart medications, may also be at risk for an infection on the hearts valves (endocarditis) and will have to take an antibiotic such as amoxicillin before having any dental work done and certain surgeries to prevent endocarditis. Aidan will never participate in any physical contact sports and will always have to be careful of hard blows to his chest. He must also be more careful throughout the winter months of simple illnesses such as the common cold or flu, for it could hospitalize Aidan causing more work on his heart. We wash ourhands a lot more and use a lot of hand sanitizer as preventative measures! Overall, it is expected that children with HLHS, will have a good quality of life: havefriends, play, and go on just like other children. Aidan had his 3rd and we pray last Open Heart surgery, the Fontan on June 26, 2006. Since then he has had 3 Heart Catherizations and numerous visits to his Cardiologist. During Aidan's 3rd Heart Cath, on June 4, 2007, he encountered a few complicatons with the procedure. It was more invasive as the Amplatzer Occluder Septal Device, a nickle titanium mesh was implanted to close a hole between the chambers in his heart that had never closed on its own. A complication from the Fontan surgery. Dispite the invasive nature of the last procedure Aidan has recovered tremendously from all of them. My husband and I were again blessed in September 2005 with our second baby, a beautiful and this time healthy baby boy we named Gabriel. We were also blessed again on March 23, 2010 with our 3rd and also healthy baby girl, Isabelle. Aidan is now 8 years old and living life to its fullest. He and his brother Gabriel played on the same baseball team this past summer. Aidan is doing well in school and he "likes his new teacher". When you look at Aidan you see the caring, loving, funny, and sometimes mischevious 8 year old that he is. He and his brother like Power Rangers, video games, and the Detroit Tigers. There is never a dull moment in the LaForest Household - its always bustling with love, life, and hope. Aidan will need to undergo another Heart Cath this winter. We pray all will go well. First and foremost thank you God for blessing us with your gifts. Many thanks to our family, friends,co­workers and to all the heart families who have shown us so much love and support. We love you all and appreciate all you do for us. To all the wonderful Doctors, Specialists, Nurses and Staff who care for Aidan - THANK YOU. We hold each of you in our hearts for you're such a part of our familyand our lives. Thank you for taking such great care of Aidan with your love, care, concern and most importantly your knowledge and wisdom.

05/06/2026

Hello to our incredible community of supporters and friends,

It’s Alexis—I realize it has been some time since I last shared an update, and I’m grateful to reconnect with all of you.

Through my involvement with Hope for Hearts, I have had the privilege of meeting so many extraordinary Heart Warriors and their families. Many of these relationships have grown over time into meaningful, lasting connections—something I hold close and deeply appreciate.

I’m reaching out today because one of these remarkable families is facing a difficult season. A Heart Mom, whom I care for deeply, has recently received a serious diagnosis unrelated to her child’s heart journey.

If there is one thing I know about this community, it’s the unwavering compassion and generosity that extends far beyond heart-related needs. In that spirit, I would love to come together to support her and her family during this time.

If you are in a position to help—whether through gift cards, services, or any thoughtful gesture—it would mean so much. Every act of kindness, no matter how small, makes a difference.

If you would like to contribute or learn more, please feel free to reach out to me directly via email at [email protected] or by sending me a direct message here. I will respond as promptly as I can.

Thank you, as always, for the compassion and strength this community continues to show. Let’s surround her with the love and support she so deserves.

01/20/2026

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Hope for Hearts News:

For those who don't know or are new to my page. Hope for Hearts is our Non Profit Organization -raising awareness for pediatric congenital heart defects.
To date we've raised almost $175,000 for Children's Hospital of Michigan. Thanks to so many of our family and friends.

Many of you know we have NOT been able to hold our Dinner & Silent Auction in many years; first, it was Covid then Aidan being listed on the heart transplant list, his transplant & recovery then my cancer diagnosis in 2025; my chemo, radiation, massive surgery and ongoing recovery.

We're still NOT able to host our Dinner & Silent Auction. This is very disappointing but I made a promise that I wouldn't due anything strenuous or overwhelming for I was reminded by many great people my body went through so much and truly needs a year to recover. So with that being said, I will keep my promise.

With this fundraiser I can do it ALL from my phone or latop. 😊

We do have some very EXCITING News today!!

Hope for Hearts
2nd Carry-Out ONLY Byblos Dinner Fundraiser is;
February 28th 2026
(Aidans 2 year Heart Transplant Anniversary -so a very SPECIAL day)

$40 per person with a MINIMUM 5 Dinners Per Order
Pick-Up 3:00PM SHARP at:
ByBlos Banquets
7258 Chase Road
Dearborn, MI 48126

Dinner will include;
Hummus/Pita
Salad
Chicken with Sauce
Rice with Lamb meat
Roasted Potato's

To order comment below or message me.
DEADLINE to ORDER and PAY Is February 22, 2026.
Payments can be made thru Venmo JME1152
Last 4 digits of my cell 6823.
Cash or check accepted also will just need to arrange a day to meet up.

Thank you for your continued LOVE & SUPPORT.

If you haven't had Byblos yet be sure to try it here as you will Not be disappointed. BEST FOOD EVER!

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February 28, 2025 Marked Aidan’s 1 year Post-Heart Transplant. It was a day we reflected on "how fast the year went by",...
03/01/2025

February 28, 2025

Marked Aidan’s 1 year Post-Heart Transplant. It was a day we reflected on "how fast the year went by", talked about his donor "J" and his family, Aidan received some cards and phone calls. It was a beautiful day. Aidan and I also relaxed some and watched some of his favorite show Cobra Kai.

Aidan’s last heart cath results he had earlier in February had "Zero" rejection.
He continues doing well and enjoying a healthier and stronger life with his "good" heart. So grateful for all of God's Blessings!

08/16/2024

Aidan update;

Aidan's new heart ❤️ continues "settling in" more and more and is doing "great"! He's almost 6 months post transplant.

Everything looks beautiful; His echo shows no arrhythmias, excellent function, a beautiful strong beating heart, his EKG also looks great, his labs (bloodwork) numbers look good (triglycerides alittle high) so we'll be more mindful of his diet. It could also just be his body so we adjusted one med. We stopped 2 antibiotics a few weeks ago that he has been on since transplant (normally stop at 6 months). These are given to help prevent infections. However, they were suppressing Aidan's immune system "way more than was needed". So stopping those early was for the best. His WBC numbers are much better.

Aidan broke down to his team yesterday. It was so heartbreaking 💔
This was a HUGE surprise for me as I had NO idea he was even struggling. This mama just thought he was gaming ALL night cause he's a teenager and well that's what teenagers do.
Well come to find out- Aidan's NOT been able to sleep again. He hears his heart beating, hears the opening and closing of his valves and feels the "thumps" and it's FREAKING him out. He's tried listening to head phones, watching tv, staying up really late to exhaust himself till he falls asleep and nothings working-so he just stays up.
It's an actual thing for "newly" transplanted teenagers/young adults -it's a Phenomenon.
Those with "normal/healthy" hearts are just used to hearing and feeling our own hearts. When we lay down to sleep and hear our heartbeat- it's normal. We're used to it and most days don't notice it or we ignore it. For someone who had a very sick/weak heart they didn't hear the sounds or really feel it.
For Aidan he had a completely different set-up inside his body to carry his blood flow throughout his body, he didn't have the "pumping" chambers of his heart. So he didn't have the "forced" pumps. His was a smooth carried passage created for him to survive. So his heart wasn't strong enough to allow him to hear his old heart or really feel the thumps. When he did -it meant he was sick or there was something more serious going on.
This has been creating a lot of anxiety and fear for Aidan. He doesn't like the sounds and feelings and it's making him think "something" is wrong.
When in fact, his new heart is doing excellent!

We also learned yesterday that Aidan is SO stressed out and scared his heart will go into rejection and that his "new" healthy heart that he LOVES so much is NOT gonna last a long time.
He shared a lot about his feelings yesterday with his team and it was just heartbreaking. He did great expressing his feelings. His team was of course, amazing and so supportive.
He seen Mr. Herman (his therapist) Wednesday and never mentioned any of this.

Aidan's been through so much his ENTIRE life (more than most people will ever see or know).
He is the definition of strength.

AIDAN- My son, My strength, My Hero.

Aidan also disclosed yesterday that he WILL be finishing his letter to his "donor" family and plans to mail it out Sunday which is his birthday.
Obviously, he's given that a lot of thought. And it's important to him.

I know he thinks about his donor and his donors family often. He talks about them and hopes one day they want to meet him.
I too, find myself thinking of Aidan's donor and family often. I thank them and pray for them.

My poor Aidan's emotions and feelings are all over the place right now. Please pray for HIM.
Just because he was transplanted doesn't mean he's cured! Transplant was NOT a cure.
Aidan was "gifted" a beautiful healthy/heart to give him a better quality of life ...one of which will hopefully bring him MANY happy/healthy and blessed years.
We traded one rigorous schedule for another rigorous schedule. One that still carries a very heavy load.
Daily prayers are always welcomed and appreciated.

Our family has gone through so much in almost 20 years but what feels like HELL this past year.
Most see smiling faces and happiness but inside there's been heartache, stress, guilt, fear and some very LONG, exhausting and emotional days.
We are grateful EVERY. SINGLE. Day.

But I think we're ALL alittle burnt out. Our summer has been extremely FULL of many appointments mostly for Aidan.
Me waking Isabelle up "early" almost daily to watch her brothers. It's truly NOT been an adventurous or as Swim-filled as previous years. And summer is almost over.
I'd love to take our family on a much needed get away or even better a family vacation (last one was 6-7 years ago) but we're NOT there yet and football 🏈 has started.
Thank God for football 🏈. Being back with our football family makes my mama heart so happy. It grounds me and keeps me calm even through the hectic and crazy chaos of being overly busy.

As always, much love and appreciation to each of you. Thank you for following Aidan's journey and for your prayers for our Aidan and family.
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Need to try
08/07/2024

Need to try

08/07/2024
Funny
08/07/2024

Funny

Fall is nearing quickly and so is our Hope for Hearts MUM Fundraiser.Schwartz's Greenhouse is once again offering their ...
08/07/2024

Fall is nearing quickly and so is our Hope for Hearts MUM Fundraiser.

Schwartz's Greenhouse is once again offering their fall fundraisers to local charities.

They will have all of your favorite colors; YELLOW, ORANGE, PURPLE/PINK or RED.

Flowers: 9 inch POT is $12.00
10 inch HANGING BASKET is $18.00

These flowers are absolutely GORGEOUS and so BIG.

DEADLINE to ORDER and PAY is SEPTEMBER 13th

PICK-UP will be on SEPTEMBER 27th in WYANDOTTE.
Pick-up MUST be that day and time will be communicated as soon as we know (most likely afternoon/early evening ONLY).

If interested message here or DM.

Hope for Hearts needs your support MORE than ever due to NOT being able to host our craft show or dinner and silent auction for several years now (from Covid to Aidan being on the Heart Transplant List through his Transplant Recovery).
Thank you!!!!

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Wyandotte, MI
48192

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