09/07/2026
Most people decide what they are going to say before they walk in.
They sit in the parking lot with a mental list and start ranking. The thing that hurts goes first. The thing that has been there since spring gets cut. The thing that feels embarrassing almost never survives the list.
That ranking is not a patient problem. It is what years of 10-minute appointments teaches a person to do.
A first visit with me runs 30 to 60 minutes. Not because the exam takes longer. The exam takes about as long as it always did. The difference is what happens in the time after it.
That is where the crossed-off items come back. The fatigue that arrived so gradually nobody could date it. The symptom that felt too small to spend a slot on.
I repeat back what I hear before I respond to it, because the thing a person says third is often the thing they came in for.
Not every one of those items turns out to matter. Some are exactly what the patient assumed. Sorting that out is the point, and it is not work that fits in 10 minutes.
If you want to see what that looks like before you commit to anything, I offer a free meet and greet.
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