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If you are someone that considers astrology a bit woo woo or even a load of rubbish you need to read my blog this week. ...
22/02/2026

If you are someone that considers astrology a bit woo woo or even a load of rubbish you need to read my blog this week. I have come to use astrology as a way of helping me pause, check in with myself and make sense of certain patterns in my life. Mercury stations retrograde in Pieces this week. Mercury is traditionally associated with communication, thinking and how we process information. When it turns retrograde messages can get mixed up, plans shift unexpectedly, emotions rise to the surface and loose ends from the past often reappear.

https://www.braintrain.me/-add-blogs-here/2026/2/22/mercury-retrograde-in-pisces-using-this-time-intentionally-in-therapy

Delighted tha my film review was featured in the British Associatoon of Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) bulletin th...
20/02/2026

Delighted tha my film review was featured in the British Associatoon of Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) bulletin this week

Nicola Strudley explores the topic of modern day loneliness and paid relationships.

Did you love yourself today?
14/02/2026

Did you love yourself today?

Valentine’s Day is often about grand gestures, romantic dinners and expressions of love for others. This year, I invite you to shift the focus—because the most important relationship you’ll ever have is the one with yourself. As a psychotherapist, I often see people searching for love and vali...

I watched Rental Family last week and it’s one of those films that lingers for days afterwards. As a psychotherapist, I ...
20/01/2026

I watched Rental Family last week and it’s one of those films that lingers for days afterwards. As a psychotherapist, I spend week after week sitting with people who talk about feeling lonely, often confused by that loneliness and sometimes ashamed of it. Set in Toyko, Rental Family Agency provide paid actors to play roles like family members, friends, or partners for social situations in order to maintain appearances at events like weddings or family gatherings.

So many thoughts about attachement, culture, connection, deception that I had to write a blog -

https://www.braintrain.me/-add-blogs-here/2026/1/20/rental-family-a-film-about-loneliness-connection-and-how-we-live-our-lives

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13/01/2026

My fav moments of Jan so far….
1. Red stripe jeans & tree hugging 🌳
2. Blue skies 🩵
3. Supermoon 🌕
4. My cats Alfie & Chester 😻🙀
5. Swans on icy lakes ❄️

What are some of your stand out moments of 2026 so far?

How my best year turned into my worst year - my most raw blog to date
20/12/2025

How my best year turned into my worst year - my most raw blog to date

It’s at this time of year that I love to encourage clients to reflect on the highs and learnings of the past 12 months. It can be really rewarding acknowledging the good bits, the challenges and how you have grown from them. This year has been a rollercoaster – bigger than Hyperia at Thorpe Park...

My red autumnal colour walk today ❤️ gorgeous walk in the sun admiring the changing colours of this new season. What hav...
23/09/2025

My red autumnal colour walk today ❤️ gorgeous walk in the sun admiring the changing colours of this new season.

What have you done today that has soothed your nervous system?

# mindfulcolourwalk

Why is doom scrolling bad for you?Because our brains aren’t built to process an endless stream of distressing news. When...
31/08/2025

Why is doom scrolling bad for you?
Because our brains aren’t built to process an endless stream of distressing news. When we keep scrolling, we feed our nervous system a steady diet of stress and fear. This can increase anxiety, disturb sleep, and leave us feeling helpless or detached.

Here’s a list of things you could do instead:

🧘🏼‍♀️Stretch for five minutes.
💦Drink a glass of water.
🫁Step outside and take 3 deep breaths.
🙏🏼Write down one thing you’re grateful for.
🎧Play a favourite song and really listen.
📚Read a few pages of a book (or listen to an audiobook).
😴Take a short nap.
☕️Make a cup of tea or coffee and savour it.
🌳Step outside for a short walk.
🎨Doodle or colour something.
✏️Try writing a short story or poem.
📸Take photos of interesting textures or light
🧁Cook or bake something new

What if summer wasn’t about doing more, but doing less with more presence?Did you slow down?As we ease towards autumn ca...
27/08/2025

What if summer wasn’t about doing more, but doing less with more presence?
Did you slow down?
As we ease towards autumn can you give yourself the gift of slowing your pace little?

Here are tools to help slow down:

🧰 1. The 3-Minute Pause
What it is: A short, structured mindfulness practice between activities.
Why it helps: Slows mental momentum, reduces overwhelm, fosters presence.
Sit or stand still.
Breathe deeply and ask, “What am I feeling right now?”
Notice physical sensations. Let them exist without judgment.

🌿 2. Grounding in Nature
What it is: Using the sensory elements of nature to regulate and calm the body.
Why it helps: Being in nature slows brainwave activity, reduces cortisol, and invites parasympathetic (rest & digest) activation.
Barefoot walking (“earthing”)
Watching trees or clouds for 5 minutes
Listening to birds or water sounds without distraction
Touching different textures (grass, bark, flowers)

📅 3. “Less but Better” Planning
What it is: A scheduling method to avoid burnout from overcommitting.
Why it helps: Encourages intentional time use aligned with what matters, not what fills time.
“If you did 20% less this week, what would improve in your mood or relationships?”
“What’s one thing you can say no to, and one thing you can say yes to for your wellbeing?”

✍️ 4. Reflective Journaling
Why it helps: Journaling externalizes thoughts, increases self-awareness, and invites reflection instead of reaction.
“What does slowing down mean to me right now?”
“Where am I rushing unnecessarily?”
“What does my body need this season?”
“What would a slow, nourishing day look like for me?”

💤 5. Permission to Rest
Why it helps: Many clients internalize guilt around “doing nothing.” Therapy reframes rest as a form of emotional and cognitive maintenance.
Affirmation:
“I don’t need to earn rest. I need to honuor it.”

🧠 6. Slow Movement Practices
Why it helps: Movement that’s slow, intentional, and connected to breath helps settle the mind through the body.
yoga/stretching / Tai Chi

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