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Tbh, it wasn’t easy to be loved in those hard moments.I wanted to push him away because I truly felt unloveable who I wa...
19/05/2026

Tbh, it wasn’t easy to be loved in those hard moments.

I wanted to push him away because I truly felt unloveable who I was - which meant I couldn’t receive this level of love for a long time.

This is where I learned my relationship blueprint was wrong.

Because I chose people who rejected me and called it love - but when it was love, I rejected it.

It took me years to figure this out and change it because I had no support, guide or map.

but now I know how to do it in a couple of days using somatic shadow work, and dare to love is where you can experience it ❤️‍🔥

If you’re ready to stop chasing emotional unavailable partners and pushing away healthy ones - this is for you 💋

COMMENT ‘DARE’ TO LEARN MORE x

17/05/2026

COMMENT GAMBLE TO PLAY.
You have until midnight.

June 6-7. ❤️‍🔥

I get wanting to come off as the chill/easy going oneYou don’t want to scare them awayYou don’t want to seem desperate A...
16/05/2026

I get wanting to come off as the chill/easy going one

You don’t want to scare them away

You don’t want to seem desperate

And dare I say it..

You don’t want to seem “crazy”

Unfortunately my love.. you’re getting them to fall “in love” with a VERSION of you.. not YOU.

And that’s fine for a while.. when you can keep it up..

Buuuuut..eventually, it’s going to come crashing down because life is like that.

Now:
1. Just because you are more sensitive, doesn’t mean that you’re unloveable - you fkn ARE just as loveable as anyone else.

2. If you find yourself in repeating patterns it is often because you’re trying to be “chill” which leads to overriding your boundaries and needs and giving someone WAY more leeway than they deserve.

3. If your sensitivity feels like you can’t EVER be yourself because it will be too much.. then thats the work.

The “sensitivity trap” is created because you’ve been taught that you need to be strong / easy going/ unopinionated / quiet / small, etc.

As women, we tend to learn this through our upbringing AND society (be cool, pretty, chill, sexy, but NOT emotional)

And I can tell you, that you playing into that sh*t is the reason you’re in the same cycle.

DARE TO LOVE is for you if you want to CHANGE the cycle.

Not to be “too much” but to actually heal what needs healing and show up in your relationships in a way where you DON’T self abandon.

2 days - June 7-8

Comment DARE to learn more ❤️‍🔥

Girllll, I see you. I know you’re holding onto a thread of hope, but I can tell you that your person would NEVER leave y...
25/04/2026

Girllll, I see you. I know you’re holding onto a thread of hope, but I can tell you that your person would NEVER leave you feeling like you need “hope” it will work out.

You would never doubt if he WANTED to be with you.

You would never question how you need to CHANGE for him to choose you.

You would never be crying at 11pm at night, checking your phone every 0.4 seconds seeing if he had called for the 3rd time this week.

Your person will make you feel like you’re the only person for them.

And maybe you know all this, you’re aware that you have anxious attachment, you’ve seen a therapist but you’re STILL stuck.

Love Alchemy is the masterclass you’ll learn exactly why you’re aware of all of this but still not able to stop chasing him and finally break free ⛓️‍💥

Comment LOVE to join me in April 29th ❤️‍🔥

COMMENT “LOVE” TO JOIN THE LOVE ALCHEMY EXPERIENCE APRIL 29th AND HEAL YOUR OWN RELATIONSHIP PATTERNS ❤️‍🔥If you’re new ...
22/04/2026

COMMENT “LOVE” TO JOIN THE LOVE ALCHEMY EXPERIENCE APRIL 29th AND HEAL YOUR OWN RELATIONSHIP PATTERNS ❤️‍🔥

If you’re new to shadow work/ projection etc, here’s what I mean:

Example of shadow projection in avoidance: 👇

I used to say my husband wasn’t “growing fast enough” for me and maybe he’s not the “one for me”

When I looked deeper, I was projecting my need to always be growing onto him and using it as a way to make him/the relationship wrong, but what it actually was, was my deep insecurities and fear that if I wasn’t seen as “growing” it meant I was a failure.

My husband became my way of avoiding MY own shadow (failure) and I wanted to push him away because it meant I didn’t have to face myself and heal.

When I healed my own shadow around this, it became VERY clear that her was always growth oriented - it just looked different to mine because it wasn’t driven by shame.. and more than that, he had all the qualities that made a SAFE partner that I always wanted ❤️

You won’t want to miss this one ❤️‍🔥Comment LOVE to join and finally understand and heal your relationship patterns so y...
15/04/2026

You won’t want to miss this one ❤️‍🔥

Comment LOVE to join and finally understand and heal your relationship patterns so you can experience HEALTHY and SAFE love.

Ps It’s on zoom so you can join from anywhere 💋

Happy Easter.
05/04/2026

Happy Easter.

10/03/2026

and the reasons are not holding up under scrutiny, let’s be honest, like reason number seven is that he laughs slightly too enthusiastically at his own jokes, and reason fourteen is a text he sent in week three that in retrospect had a “weird energy,” and you know, you KNOW, that these are not real reasons — and yet here you are, building the case…

your brain is a very motivated lawyer when it wants to be, it will find something, it will always find something, because it’s not actually looking for reasons — it’s looking for an exit before the stakes get too high,
because attachment is where you’ve been hurt before, and your nervous system would like to hand you a way out now, on your terms, before you’re in deep enough that leaving would cost something.

TRUTHFULLY….
the 22 reasons aren’t about him, they’re about how much it would hurt if this one mattered and then fell apart — so your protection system is trying to get you out before you find out

follow if your brain has ever built a case that would not hold up in court 👇

10/03/2026

and the investigation is thorough, genuinely impressive work from your brain, it will find the inconsistency in a message from eleven days ago, it will clock a slight shift in his energy on a Wednesday and construct a full narrative around it, it will Google things at 1am that do not need to be Googled….

and the wild part? the more consistent he is, the more the investigation escalates, because “consistent” has registered somewhere in your nervous system as “suspicious,” like — why is he being so consistent, what is he hiding, nobody is just consistently nice for no reason
(he is nice for no reason, that’s just who he is, your brain cannot accept this, it does not trust it)

here’s what’s actually happening: you got very good at reading micro-signals in relationships where missing the signals had a cost, so you developed threat-detection that is genuinely impressive — and now you’re running that same software on someone who is just a normal person who likes you..

nothing is off, your nervous system just hasn’t updated the software yet, it’s still running the old version

follow if you are ready to upgrade your nervous systems love blueprint

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