04/09/2021
Emotional Eating and Your Weight.
Emotional eating is using food to make yourself feel better in the moment. Many of us reach for food to soothe and suppress negative feelings. Emotions such as boredom, fear, stress, anger, sadness, and loneliness can make us reach for and justify poor food choices.
Major life events, or maybe just the stresses of everyday life can trigger emotional eating. This can derail your diet and disrupt your weight loss efforts. After indulging in something unhealthy as the result of a crisis, the original emotional issue remains, followed by guilt or shame.
Emotional eating can become a real problem for some, causing binge eating and weight gain. It is a habit that, for me, was hard to break without outside help. Talking about my eating patterns with someone else helped me to see areas where work needed to be done.
We know what a diet of processed foods can do to our physical health. Too much fat, salt, and sugar can cause a series of health problems such as high blood pressure, diabetes, obesity, heart disease, and addiction.
Eating emotionally increases our serotonin levels. Serotonin is a brain chemical that elevates mood. When we eat emotionally, we feel calmer and more relaxed. What we eat can affect the way we feel. Eating processed food can make us feel bad physically, as well as affect our emotions. Who hasn’t felt bloated and depressed after eating too much of something they shouldn’t be eating in the first place?
People who eat a poor-quality diet high in full-fat dairy, processed meats, refined cereals, fried foods, and sweet desserts are more likely to report symptoms of depression than those who eat a healthy diet.
The mind-gut connection.
We all have felt the sensation of fluttering in our stomach when something happens, such as a first date, or the first day of a new job, or the instant feeling of upset if you have a near miss while driving. What about the feeling in your gut just before you take a big test, or just a “feeling” you may have about something? This is the mind-gut connection in action.
The vagus nerve serves as a superhighway between the brain and the internal organs. It is one of our biggest nerves and connects from the base of our brains to our stomach. The vagus nerve controls the body’s response in times of rest relaxation and influences the immune system as well as oversees other bodily functions such as mood, digestion, and heart rate.
Feelings like anger, sadness, anxiety, and elation can trigger the stomach and intestines to release hormones and chemicals. They enter your digestive tract, where they interfere with digestion and gut flora as well as decrease antibody production. When we are upset, the first physical feeling is in our gut.
You are what you eat, right?
The saying “You are what you eat” is literally true. Each cell in our body is replaced in about seven years. The new cells are made from the food we eat. What is on your plate will be a part of you soon after you consume it. It is very important to consider what you eat. Many of us seem to have a disconnect between what we eat and what it does to our bodies.
“You are what you eat” refers to the idea that food can control a person’s health positively and negatively. Eat a well-balanced diet and feel good. Feel energetic and focused with happy digestion. Eat processed junk and feel bad. Feel bloated, have brain fog, indigestion, and mood swings.
I read a literary definition that said, “To simply put it, food defines your physical and mental character.” The health of your gastrointestinal tract affects the quality of the messaging from mind to gut. An unhappy gut can result in psychological and cognitive problems such as ADD/ADHD, depression or mood disorders, anxiety, and brain fog.
The kinds of food we eat can affect our emotions. For me, eating processed, high sugar-starch foods, makes me feel anxious and angry, and then I want more. Most of our serotonin is produced in our GI tract. Our GI tract is also lined with a hundred million neurons and the function of these neurons, and the production of serotonin is determined by the billions of good bacteria in our intestinal microbiome.
A poor GI tract could lead to trouble controlling weight, kidney problems, asthma and allergies, migraines, heart disease, arthritis, and joint inflammation, or autoimmune disorders.
The better quality of food we eat, the happier our digestive tract, the more serotonin we produce, the happier we feel.
You are what you think you are.
Can you think yourself thin? Absolutely! Can you think yourself fat? I did. Every negative thought I had fed my obesity. I never had a kind word for myself and would eat junk food as a punishment. Once I turned that around, the extra weight came off on its own.
Studies have shown that people lost weight at a faster rate who felt supported and had a more positive and “healthy” attitude. As women, we can be so very critical of our bodies. We constantly compare ourselves to others and find fault where there is beauty. These are just bad habits that need to be broken.
Think yourself thin. Tell yourself positive things. Think about what a healthy body needs to stay that way and begin doing those things. After so many years of inner negativity, try inner positivity. Say nice things to yourself and ditch the critical voice.
Healthy emotional eating?
Can I eat emotionally in a healthy way? Of course! Controlling emotional eating by resolving the root cause is ideal, but if you do run for the kitchen when something comes at you, chose foods that will improve your mood.
Instead of eating junk food, try eating oatmeal, sweet potatoes, and high-fiber grains like whole-wheat pasta to help your body release serotonin. Eggs provide protein that helps stabilize blood sugar. The yolks contain B vitamins, which can lessen the severity of symptoms of depression.
Nuts, especially walnuts, contain high amounts of omega-3 fatty acids, which support brain health. Pumpkin seeds and sunflower seeds contain magnesium which has been shown to boost levels of serotonin. Cold-water fish also contain omega-3 fatty acids. Low-fat dairy contains vitamin D, and calcium and both contain peptides that promote feelings of well-being and relaxation.
I keep healthy ingredients on hand and have a list of things that I can whip up in a hurry if I feel I need to eat to self-soothe. Eating because of an emotional event can be the lesser of evils when I consider the alternatives. Life can throw some hard balls. Dealing with them can be different for everyone.
Emotional eating can be friend or foe depending on how you use it. Fighting it may lead to poor judgment and embracing emotional eating may only enable it. So, enable it if you must, but make better choices when shopping. Do not allow processed foods in your home! Have real foods on hand to prepare something that will satisfy any mood and not wreak havoc on your physical and mental health.
Next time you turn to food as a panacea, try preparing something for yourself that will satisfy your needs and help improve your mood. Preparing something to eat can also be a distraction from the situation. If you can, eat mindfully. Focus on food as medicine.
Understanding the cause and effect of emotional eating may help you to control it. Instead of fighting the need to comfort yourself with food after a stressful event, embrace it. Remember the mind-gut connection and that our emotions are tied to our digestive system.
Consider the foods you eat and how they affect your body. If we make good choices, food can be nourishing and help us to feel good, with no lasting effects other than good health. If we make poor choices, it can satisfy us now, followed by lasting effects on our physical and mental health.
Negative thoughts should not perpetuate eating to soothe. If this is a coping mechanism for you, use it in a way that is the least harmful to yourself. Last week, my new computer died. I lost what I was working on, which was a big deal, and now I must ship it off to be repaired. Who knows how long it will take for me to get it back?
Instead of jumping in my car and rushing to the nearest gas station for powdered sugar donuts, I made and ate a peanut butter and jelly sandwich, which made me feel better and calmer with no after-effects like guilt, indigestion, or shame.
It really is all in your head. You are what you think. Try thinking yourself thin by coming up with alternative ways to handle situations where you may use food to cope, and if you do use food to soothe, choose healthy food. Eat foods that will help lift your emotions, keep you healthy, and provide you with the comfort you are seeking. There are ways to self-soothe that do not involve ingesting things. Let’s discover them.