22/05/2026
LETS GET OLD & FERAL IN PEACE 3/3
As we encounter more of life (with time, age & experience) we are gifted many challenging opportunities, which help us to redefine our relationship to truth & authenticity.
In this, we are given the chance to be stripped of all that is not true. What is left is a more distilled expression of our true nature. This refinement of the essential Self is what makes AGING SO BEAUTIFUL & IMPORTANT. It also why aging should be more honoured, respected & revered in our society.
A “well aged person” is not about how few wrinkles someone has. Aging well is more about how receptive a person has been (and remains) to life. How willing they are to be changed by experience & created anew. How well someone has been able to retain a tether to joy, and the innocence thereof, while still holding some of life’s deepest sadnesses, depravity & heartache.
Someone who is awake to the miracle & fragility of life. Someone alive to emotional motility & range. You can see this quality in a persons eyes: the depths to which they have really felt life & been changed by it. This way of being demands a certain degree of responsiveness, a deep listening to the world around you. A listening that supersedes will.
The mark of a well aged person, is someone whose spirit is rich and awake to life. Someone who faces mortality and change head on; with honesty and courage. And to face mortality, in part, means to accept aging.
A well aged person is someone who has an expanded capacity to hold more of life through having established a relationship to receiving & digesting life, as an ongoing cycle.
The most integrated, interesting, capacious people I know are the ones who have this pattern close to their heart and live according to its rhythm, not their own. This kind of responsiveness to life is where so much subtle magic happens. A subtle listening, a subtle noticing, a subtle joy. Really, an engaged relationship with life that does not require your face to be wrinkle-less & your body to be a certain shape.
Without these qualities, life does get awfully serious. It also gets seriously warped & we easily lose sight of what’s truly important.