Conscious Connections Club: Authentic Relating & Singles Events

Conscious Connections Club: Authentic Relating & Singles Events This is a home for authentic relating, connection games, and events in our innermost playground: love. Eloah

Whether you're here to restore your faith in humanity, meet others who are doing the work, or keep showing up as YOU in how you relate — welcome! Authentic Relating Games Nights in Southern Suburbs, Cape Town

20/06/2026

Caught myself flirting with the idea of calling my ex.

Not reaching for the phone — just the thought, circling.

If you’re a perfectionist who tried to earn your parents’ love in every impossible way — titles, roles, achievement, beauty, being exciting enough to keep — you know this one.

When I get tired of trying so hard, some part of me still believes a man is the only place I’ll hear it: yes darling, it’s okay, you got me now, no need to try harder, I am here.

14 years of doing this work. I still catch the thought.

The work was never finishing the pattern.

It’s catching it faster. Every time.

👇 If we made a list of every way we’ve seen or done auditioning for love — what would you add?

02/06/2026

Easy.

12/02/2026

We are looking for men and women ages 28-65 who are self-aware, emotionally regulated and available. Is that you or someone you know?

FREE interactive global Valentine’s day event.

Link in bio ❤️

10/02/2026

Apps amplify Insecure Attachment. 👇

For anxious attachment, this amplifies overthinking, over-stretching, and self-abandonment.
For avoidant attachment, it amplifies distancing, ambiguity, and emotional minimalism.

And honestly? Many people end up looking disorganized — pulled in and pushed out at the same time.

Attention gets misinterpreted.
Lots of messages must mean I’m special.
Silence must mean they’re too good for me — or I did something wrong.

When in reality, it’s usually about priorities and communication skills, not your worth ❤️

23/01/2026

What breaks my heart about modern dating…

What breaks my heart most
is that everyone is playing a game
they don’t actually want to play.

Pretending they don’t care.
Pretending they’re unbothered.
Pretending they’re “chill.”

Not because they don’t want intimacy —
but because it doesn’t feel safe to want it openly.

So we compete over who needs less.
Who texts slower.
Who can stay cooler longer.

And then we wonder why it feels empty.

This isn’t a people problem.
It’s a system that rewards disconnection.

If someone in your life has been complaining about dating lately —
this is probably what they’re pointing at.

🤍

07/01/2026

Love in 2025 didn’t work out as planned? Share this with someone who needs to hear this.

05/01/2026

Waiting for a text that won’t come...💔 Ever found yourself there?

What do you do, write, say?

Waiting and worrying and strategizing and planning is the ego’s way. But it doesn’t have to be yours.

For as long as you live in the paradigm of doing, you will keep stuck. Sounds crazy?

The answer is to STOP 🛑 doing everything you have been conditioned to do. Sounds simple, huh? But it isn’t easy.

Because it’s not your mind that’s calling the shots, it’s your nervous system…

⬇️⬇️Drop LOVE in the comments and I will show you exactly how to stop spiraling and move exactly where your soul’s been guiding you all along.

28/12/2025

Keep at it.

06/12/2025

This video is going viral in Brazil for a reason. Watch the moment a *nervous laugh* comes up.

That’s not indifference — that’s a classic **fusing response**.
When the body tries to suppress emotion so it doesn’t have to feel the full weight of it.
Freeze → laugh → deflect. It’s a survival pattern, not a lack of care.

And this is exactly why we need emotional education.

If we want to be safe partners — for women, for men, for our communities —
we need to be able to sit with the discomfort these videos bring up.

Because anger *is* a human right.
Complex PTSD research calls it a necessity:
**You have the right to feel anger.
You have the right to express it in non-abusive ways.**

What we’re seeing in the video is not empowered masculinity — it’s shutdown masculinity.
The freeze that comes before the anger that never gets to become protection, boundary, or action.

If we want a different world, we need a different relationship with our emotions.

Not suppressing.
Not exploding.
But feeling → regulating → responding.

This is how we break cycles.
This is how we become safe. 💛

How do you feel watching this? 👇





SafeRelationships

04/12/2025

Matthew Hussey became a dad — and this honesty explains men better than any dating book 💛

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