28/08/2026
👩🏻⚕️Masking in ADHD….🎭
What even is it?!
Firstly it’s not unique to ADHD. It’s a very human thing that everyone will do without realising to some extent and in certain situations.
Nobody can say they never adapt the behaviour to some degree depending on who they are with or the environment they are in.
But the reason it’s so prevalent in ADHD is because we are more likely to feel the need to adapt our behaviour as a way of coping & fitting in compared to those without ADHD.
For example:
Being told ‘you don’t listen’ since a young age - results in making sure to look like you’re listening even when you aren’t. 👀
Saying the wrong thing or putting your foot in it too many times - results in rehearsing conversations before hand to avoid embarrassment or saying the wrong thing again!
You get the point….
Never assume just because someone presents themselves a certain way, that they aren’t struggling underneath.🫶
A little side note 🎵- listen to the lyrics of Lewis Capaldi’s song ‘The pretender’ it describes masking perfectly 🧡