02/06/2026
Hair can be a really sensitive subject, because no matter who we are, we ALL have a very personal relationship with our hair.
Even those who say they don't care about there hair, they are not bothered about their hair or what it looks like, to those who say they love their hair.
Within it all lies a very deeply personal relationship that can be influenced by past trauma, bullying, previous hair cutting experiences, self image challenges, identity rooting, fear and holding, and protection as just a few.
When it comes to really facing this relationship and coming face to face with what is really here, then, we are really now creating an opportunity for change, transformation and healing, along with opening the portal to greater freedom, liberation and authenticity.
We can now access something deeper that is more aligned, more true, and an honest creative reflection of unique essence and originality.
Hair has always been connected with Identity. It is part of the divine intelligence and when it is given back to True Identity, pure shakti shines and lights up and illuminates so brightly.
I have had clients come to me from witnessing women they know come into so much more brightness after coming for there sessions. This is why. When we are TRUE everything lights up. Light shines.
Because our hair is so tied up with appearance, beauty, attractiveness and sexuality, it can be hard for a lot of women to let go into something new, because it challenges the conditioning that lies so deeply in the psyche. Which is why so much care is taken when meeting this relationship because of its depth and the threads that weave through so many aspects related with the hair.
I work with a lot of women who won't go to the hairdressers.
a) because they are afraid of coming out with something they don't want.
b) knowing there hair is sacred and not wanting to go into the traditional environment
c) knowing there is something wanting to happen with their hair but unsure what, unable to put language to it and afraid of not being met fully in it
d) holding onto their old identity
I could write much more...
In my heart ❤ in my experience ❤ this relationship is so key and important so that it is included in the whole and part of everything.
A lot of the time it is missing from women's inner relationship as part of 'wholeness' with the Body, Being and Soul. Like something separate like it's always been treated.
But it doesn't have to be, it can be included into the whole to develop a healthy and happy relationship, and given back to Essence, where true expression shines.
❤