10/15/2026
Boredom and disappointment both show us something about our capacity to tolerate the gap between what we want from reality and what reality is giving us.
Consider the last time you felt deeply disappointed. Or when you felt hopelessly bored. What you did with that experience may be a small window into a pattern that's worth examining.
Did you reach for resolution? What did your emotions feels like? Did you turn on yourself? Did you seek or push away others?
What was it like to encounter the limits of what you wanted?
I'm not suggesting that these experiences should be easy, or that "health" is not struggling with them. The opposite, perhaps.
I'm suggesting that we start to move through the world quite differently when we have tools to reorient ourselves when reality is especially frustrating.