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09/04/2026

Chasing the Next High?

The nature of an experience
is that it comes, and then it goes.
It is here to be witnessed and valued
for what it is:
the way Divinity is appearing.

If it is a particularly delightful experience
your mind may try to sustain it,
or replicate it.
This is not possible.

It is easy to fall into the addictive trap
of thinking and feeling:
“I’ll be happy when _______ happens again.”
By default, this means
you aren’t happy and peaceful
until your next similar experience.

But, each experience is brand new
and brings unique challenges and struggles
and lessons and surprises and joys and….

So lasting peace is not found
in chasing after the next high.
It is found in embracing whatever is occurring,
just as it is.

It is not found in craving something
or the fulfillment of the craving.
It is found in the absence of craving
and the ability to abide in non-judgmental awareness,
feeling Presence in your heart,
no matter what is occurring.

09/03/2026

Meditation’s Gift

The sacred beauty
of prioritizing meditation
is that you can bring
any circumstance in your life
into the quiet container
of not needing it to be different,
for a few precious moments.

That’s truly remarkable,
and not the m.o. of the ego,
which is always noisily concerned
about fixing or changing something.

Creating a space to pause long enough
to embrace an issue
in nonjudgmental awareness,
allows for a gentle spaciousness
to surround the topic.

This manger of Grace
can give birth to what is ready to be born
as the softening Presence holds you.

This could be deeper clarity,
inspired action,
or the abiding peace
that all really is well within the One.

09/02/2026

Your Entire Experience is Divine

The nondual reality of one infinite Being
is your entire experience
because nothing else exists.

This is all your perceptive faculties can experience:
hearing, seeing, touching, tasting,
smelling, sensing, feeling, thinking….

They are each and all
communicating to you a glimpse
of the one Reality.

There can be no exceptions.

So, if you are seeking God,
you won.
Your search is over.
There is nothing else.
The seeker lost their job.
Welcome home.

What you now get to do
is remember and celebrate.

It’s all the One.

09/01/2026

Two Responses to Difficulties in Life

1. Thinking, feeling and believing
that there is something
fundamentally wrong with you.
You believe that current reality, is the truth.
It feels permanent and proves you are deficient.
It’s just the way you are.

This is a recipe for frustration, blame,
desperation, and exhaustion:
a downward spiral of self-destruction.

2. Discerning that you are whole, worthy,
at one with I Am,
and that the conscious or unconscious choices
you are making
are not serving you in experiencing
the easeful flow of Grace in areas in your life.

You believe that current reality, is a human fact:
that which is occurring at this point
on the human stage.
You also realize that human facts
are transitory and value-neutral,
even though they may not be serving you.
They are something you can be aware of
without attachment, negative reactivity, or suppression.

This is a recipe for potential inspiration,
buoyancy, action, and growth:
an upward spiral of self-realization and fulfillment.

It is vital to pay very close attention to your responses,
noticing any self-judgment.
Life is too precious to misidentify yourself.

08/31/2026

What is your Deepest Yearning?

Experiencing Unity
is the deepest yearning in my heart:
Oneness with everyone and everything.
This is actual nondual Reality:
the way Being is.

What is my role in experiencing Unity?

Needing nothing to change
through Thy will be done,
since Reality is Unified.

When I drop into awareness,
I find a quiet Presence,
holding me and the moment.
I bring it to whatever is concerning me.

I then feel and experience the issue as it is,
without judgment, argument, story, or interpretation.
It remains untouched
as I need it not to be different.

In this way I maintain the awareness of Unity,
feeling quiet Presence,
and my heart’s deepest yearning is fulfilled.

08/30/2026

The Dance

Unity is here.
Undifferentiated Oneness.
The one Being.
The only Reality.
I AM.

This moment right now is Life’s gift to you:
perfectly tailored for you to experience Unity,
the intimacy of Oneness,
connection without a gap,
the non-stop affection of permeating Presence,
the gnosis of non-judgmental clarity,
the grace where self-consciousness
dissolves in the seamless flow
of evolving Music.

This is The Dance.

It may not feel like we experience it
when our mind or emotions get in the way
with a refracting story
about how much needs to be done,
or how something needs to be different.

So, we can pause,
breathe in Stillness,
breathe from Stillness,
and remember that the distracting refrain
is a flash in unfoldment of the score of Reality
that deserves no fixation.

There is nowhere
on all the infinite earth-forms
in the Universe
where this is not true.

Why?

Because
there is only The Dance.

08/29/2026

Self-disparaging Remarks

Do you have a habit of voicing to others,
your self-disparaging beliefs?

When you repeatedly tell others
how deficient you are,
how does that leave you feeling,
better or worse about yourself?

Voicing your self-perceived brokenness,
if nothing else, can reinforce
your own misidentification,
making it stickier,
and harder not to default into it.

What kind of response is your conditioned mind
hoping to get from others when you say, for example:
“I’m so stupid.”

You are likely putting others in a difficult position.
Either they will agree with you,
“Yeah, you really are stupid.”
which could make both of you feel sh*tty.

Or they could contradict you:
“You are clearly not stupid.”
which is not comfortable for them
because it may reinforce that you feel they don’t get you,
or even feel like a hollow compliment
because in a sense you asked for it.

Or, they may say nothing because
either way it is a lose-lose
and they don’t know how to respond.
In this case you may feel ignored,
and they may feel awkward.

Please consider not venting
your self-disparaging beliefs.
Your lack of verbal self-judgment
will be a breath of fresh air,
and a gentle blessing to you,
and to each person
with whom you interact.

08/28/2026

Dealing with Self-disparaging Beliefs

Do you ever find yourself rehearsing
self-disparaging beliefs?

This is your inner critic trying to fix
what it believes is the broken or limited you.
What does the inner critic actually do?

1. By itself, all the inner critic can do
is make things worse.
2. It digs a hole and buries you in it.
3. It puts your mouth on an exhaust pipe
and then condemns you for breathing.
4. It slowly destroys everything you love.
5. It hides your ability to deeply bless.
6. It dulls your relationships.
7. It fogs your thinking.
8. It blunts your doing.
9. It exhausts you.
10. It infiltrates your body with pollution.
11. It makes you live a lie.
12. It masks the innate, magnificent beauty that you are.

What can you do about it?

Acknowledge the beliefs without identifying with them.
When it speaks, use it as a helpful reminder
for what you are not.
Thank it for its wake-up call.
And, then abide in, and cherish, what you truly are.

When you do this,
all of the above 12 detriments
no longer enter your experience.
Instead, here’s the effect:

1. It brings blessings to every area in your life.
2. It creates a nurturing environment for your growth.
3. It allows you to breathe freely with nonjudgment.
4. It contributes to the growth of everything you love.
5. It augments your ability to deeply bless.
6. It enlivens your relationships.
7. It allows clarity and gnosis to govern your thinking.
8. It sharpens your ability to make a difference.
9. It exhilarates you.
10. It nourishes your body with inspiration.
11. It helps you live authentically.
12. It reveals the innate, magnificent beauty that you are.

08/27/2026

Exploring Non-stop Certainty

The only certainty
is that the content of the next moment is uncertain,
and will arrive from the Unknown without a gap.

Our role is to participate in this Divine Feminine choreography by:

1. Knowing this is the inviolable Law of the Universe
2. Consciously opening to This
3. Gently receiving each snowflake as it lands without judgment
4. Responding as Clarity reveals Herself
5. Abiding in and as conscious Awareness

This is not life happening to you.
This is the one Being happening.
She is happening as You, as Me, as I Am,
and All.

08/26/2026

Guidance from I AM for Every Moment

You need not hold on
to anything happening in a specific way,
because I am governing all.
The way things occur
is the gift of the Moment.

Never oppose what is. You do not need it to change.
Embrace it in your awareness
so fully that all the stories
are strained out
and you are in the naked Now with what is unfolding.

Let this resonance vibrate
up and down your central channel so it is fully embodied.
This is pure intimacy, within Being.

Release the future, and the past.
Both are never here.
They need not envelop you.
Abide in and as the pure stillness of Awareness.
This is Unity.

The nondual reality of one infinite Being
is your entire experience.
It doesn’t need projections of hopeful outcomes.
It doesn’t need injections of deficiency stories.
It’s all here now, fully available, within your spiritual Heart.
It’s yours to open to this exquisite Beauty and peace.

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