Mourning Space

10/14/2026

Um. I think that was supposed to say Yoga…

See you soon!

09/15/2026

Good morning, I miss you 🧡

09/08/2026

Sooooo. I’m turning 47 tomorrow and I’m celebrating in a couple ways.

One of the ways I’m celebrating is by using this as an opportunity tell you that I’m stoked to be one of the speakers at this Death Worker Summit, starting Sept 24th.

I love helping people but I also love public speaking.

Weird, right?

I’m using my career pivot to find more opportunities to share what I know and I’m super grateful to WillowEoL for this opportunity.

I also love that this summit:

1) is free and

2) If you do want access to a ton of resources they are also ✨47✨for a limited time.

I’ll have some other speaking engagements to talk about soon ✨ahem movement and mindset with Strive For Epic✨

Anywhooooo. Maybe I’ll show my face tomorrow with a mourning affirmation.

In the meantime, if you’re an aspiring death worker, the thing that gets you to the right website it up in the place where those things live 🥳

09/05/2026

07/30/2026

Let Sara Crandell Hoxie know if you do this today 🙏🏽

And know that if you’re watching this and I’ve served your family in any capacity, you will all be in my thoughts today when I make my way to the river.

07/15/2026

If you are seeing this, maybe it’s meant for you.

No hashtags. I’m just putting it out there so you have someone in your corner letting you know the relief you may feel on the other side.

Do it smart. Do it with your family in mind. Do it with backup…but if you can, your purpose is waiting.

06/29/2026

Hey friends!

I’m just out here winging life, and I’m pretty pleased with it all.

Part of what is helping me get past that stuck place I was in is saying no.

I am a recovering people pleaser that hates saying no. But if I’m gonna survive and thrive I’m gonna have to wield that word with greater confidence!

Say no today! With love! With kindness! But also confidence! If it ain’t it, it ain’t it and yes is just gonna get you into a miserable pickle.

Love you. Have a great week. 🧡

—
redding California death doula end-of-life personal assistant public speaker caregiver help genx oldest daughter

06/11/2026

I’m pretty low maintenance when it comes to how I look, but that sometimes means I tell myself I don’t need the most basic of upkeep like a haircut.

The fact is when I don’t do these simple things it takes its toll. Nothing I tell myself specifically, but it’s definitely a reason I don’t show my face here sometimes.

Take care of yourself. Get the haircut. There may be periods in your life when that’s just not feasible, but when it is, caring for yourself can make an impact in so many other facets of your life 🧡

Thanks 😍

06/09/2026

Death doulas show up in different ways.

I say I’m a death doula for the living because I have a lot of knowledge that a caregiver may benefit from.

I can take on some of the duties so that you get breaks, or I help you understand many of the decisions you’ll have to make.

Yes, I want your loved one to have a beautiful transition - but I also want you to feel supported before, during and after.

I’ve had a hard time saying this with my chest - but now it’s time.

With love from your death doula 🧡

05/30/2026

You’re so smart and so capable but grief does funny things to our ability to function.

You’ll get it back, but maybe not today.

With love from your Feath Doula