08/27/2026
Today I did something I’ve never done before.
My first completely unassisted pull-up. 🥹
And the funny thing is…I didn’t know it was coming.
I was just practicing.
Just showing up. Just trying again.
And maybe that’s what I love most about this moment.
We rarely know which day of the ordinary work is going to become the day something finally changes.
The reps.
The failures.
The little improvements.
The days you feel strong.
The days you absolutely do not.
The quiet work nobody sees.
And then one day…you surprise yourself.
I’ve had Romans 5:3-5 on repeat lately—about perseverance, character and hope.
Endurance.
That word has been sitting with me.
Because this isn’t really about a pull-up.
It’s about what happens when we keep going long enough to become someone we once weren’t.
And I’m learning to let myself be proud of that.
Not boastful.
Not better than anyone else.
Just proud.
Because I think women have been taught to shrink our celebrations a little.
To downplay the hard things we’ve accomplished.
I don’t want to do that anymore.
So today, at 53, I’m celebrating a pull-up.
And I’m celebrating the woman who kept showing up long enough to do it.
Especially because I know I didn’t get here alone.
Burn Boot Camp Rochester North has created such a fun, encouraging space to get stronger, try things that scare us, and discover we’re capable of more than we thought.
Matthew Morris —you get in my head even when I’m doing On Demand and somehow convince me to push a little harder.
Joe Jones —you are forever pushing me beyond what I think I can do.
And Emma Ricks🇱🇷 —you were such a light today (and always). Your genuine excitement and emotion when I did it made me want to cry. 🥹
This is what community looks like.
People who push you.
People who believe in you.
People who celebrate with you.
And maybe sometimes, faith looks a little like this too…
Keep showing up.
Keep practicing.
Keep enduring.
Keep hoping.
You never know when the thing you’ve been working toward is going to become the thing you can finally do.
Today, I could.
And yes…I’m pretty damn proud of myself. 🤍💪�