10/11/2026
Your kid hearing “no” from you at 6 is practice for respecting “no” from everyone else at 19.
We love our kids, so we rescue them. We negotiate the bedtime, email the teacher, fix the grade, smooth over the consequence. It feels like protection.
But kids learn what “no” means at home first. If “no” is always up for debate, if every boundary bends when they push hard enough, they learn that other people’s limits are negotiable too.
The headlines about the Cornell 7, seven students accused of assaulting a classmate, have a lot of parents asking hard questions. There’s no single cause behind harm like that, and no parent can guarantee who their child becomes. But we can raise kids who’ve had real, everyday practice hearing “no,” sitting with disappointment, and owning their impact on others.
That practice is uncomfortable. For them and for you. Holding a boundary while your child melts down is hard. Watching your teen face a consequence you could make disappear is hard.
You don’t have to figure it out alone.
💬 Therapy can help parents hold boundaries without guilt, help kids build tolerance for disappointment, and give teens space to understand consent, accountability, and how their choices affect others.
📍 Nurturing Wellness offers support for parents, families, kids, and teens in Galena, OH and virtually across Ohio. Link in bio to schedule.