04/11/2026
Tuck em in.
Let em sleep, real good.
Just makes space for the real ones. The soul fam. Deep connections, GREAT conversations.
Our relationships - in all their forms, shapes & sizes - really play such a significant role in our earthly life. We think it’s all about money, success, status, “getting there” or whatever… but WE NEED supportive relationships, ones that breathe life into us, create space for us to be vulnerable & authentic, and that anchor us in love for ourselves and life.
We should never have to betray ourselves to remain in relationship, whether romantic, friendship, familial, whatever. This doesn’t mean burn bridges and isolate yourself… but we all deserve to take up space.
We all deserve to be seen, appreciated, and respected for who WE ARE, who we CHOOSE TO BE, without the need to change us or shape us into anything other than who we are being in the moment!!!
We all deserve nourishing connections. Conversations that transcend time and bring us so fully into the present moment that we remember what life is all about. If that matters… and at this point in my life, these talks & connections really fricken matter to me.
If people choose not to see you, to judge you, place you beneath them or less than them, if people choose to create more separation & control rather than connection & intimacy with you, LET EM.
If they sleepin on you, TUCK EM INNN.
If you have to force connection, beg to be heard, fight to be seen… if you feel constantly misunderstood, denied, disrespected or ignored… let em go. Walk away. Take space. Nobody has to settle for breadcrumbs. Everybody deserves connection that nourishes the soul, not just the ego and its need for safety & hierarchy.
If we cannot connect with the people in our inner circle, if we feel ignored, denied, repressed, bored, stifled or confused, we gotta step back. Maybe walk away, maybe make some changes so connection can flourish deeper. But we can’t avoid these things, otherwise we become more and more isolated, deeper in confusion and repression, usually leading to depression and self hatred.
You are worthy of the connection you seek 🫶✨🙏
Love u insta fam💖