27/09/2026
Not every attachment begins with conflict. Sometimes it begins with love. One of the misconceptions around Energy Hooks is that they must come from difficult or hostile relationships. In this month’s Journal, Jeff explains that within the Life Alignment understanding, unresolved energetic attachment may also develop in loving relationships.
A parent’s difficulty letting go.
A grandparent’s deep love becoming possessive.
Someone continuing to hold an emotional connection long after circumstances have changed.
The point isn’t that love itself is the problem. Nor is identifying an Energy Hook about deciding who is at fault. The more useful question is:
Has connection quietly become attachment?
Healthy relationships allow connection without requiring us to hold onto another person — or requiring them to remain who we need them to be.
Sometimes letting go isn’t the opposite of love.
It may be part of loving more freely.
Life Alignment Series 03 | Inspired by the September Life Alignment Journal.