08/27/2026
Right now, the media is making postpartum feel incredibly heavy — and it can be. It can be hard, messy, and overwhelming. But it can also be a season of deep joy, beauty, and quiet transformation.
As an occupational therapist who specializes in maternal mental health support, I wanted to share a few ways you can set yourself up well for this chapter:
Expect that you will change
Your body, moods, brain, energy, and even your sense of self will shift. Knowing this ahead of time doesn’t make the changes less surprising, but it can soften the shock. You’re not “going back” — you’re becoming someone new. That is allowed. That is matrescence.
Arrange real support ahead of time
“Know your village” is more than a nice phrase. Get specific:
• Who can bring a meal in the first two weeks?
• Who can hold the baby so you can shower or nap?
• Schedule postpartum check-ins with your midwife, OB, pelvic floor PT, counsellor, and OT before the baby arrives.
• Consider hiring a postpartum doula or night nurse for even a few nights if it’s accessible.
The more concrete the plan, the less you’ll scramble when you’re exhausted and hormonal.
Practice self-affirmations that actually land. Start now, while you’re still pregnant. Simple, true statements work best:
“I am allowed to rest.” 🫶
“My body is doing something extraordinary.” ✨
“It’s okay if this feels hard and beautiful at the same time.” 🌙
Write them down or save them on your phone
Protect your capacity early.
Decide in advance what you will and won’t do. Lower the bar on everything that isn’t essential. Give yourself permission to say no, keep the lights low, wear the same soft clothes for days, and prioritize sleep, food, and recovery. Your nervous system and healing body will thank you.
Postpartum doesn’t have to be only hard. With a little preparation, it can also hold space for softness, growth, and unexpected moments of wonder.
Ready to build your postpartum support plan? I’d love to help you prepare in a way that actually feels doable. → Book a session with me at the link in my bio! 🤍