08/28/2026
We often think we need to find the right movement - the perfect stretch, the perfect pose, the perfect exercise to make the tension go away.
But perhaps the more important question is not what you are doing, but how your nervous system is experiencing it.
Our brains are constantly taking in information from the body and the environment, making predictions about what is safe, what might be threatening and how much protection is needed.
When the nervous system no longer perceives the same need for protection, some of the guarding, gripping or tension it has been creating can begin to soften.
You don't have to feel completely relaxed for movement to be within your capacity. You can feel effort, sensation, and even a little discomfort and still breathe, notice, stay curious and choose.
There is something powerful in being able to meet a sensation without immediately needing to fix it, fight it or run from it.
Sometimes the body softens not because we forced it to let go, but because it finally feels that it doesn't have to hold on so tightly.
And perhaps that's what we're really practicing..
So instead of asking, " What movement will fix me?" Perhaps we can gently ask, " What experience might help my body feel safe enough to soften?".