06/17/2026
One of the biggest mistakes I see people with insomnia make is staying in bed awake for hours. đ´
It feels logical.
Youâre tired.
You want to sleep.
So you stay in bed hoping sleep will come.
But your brain is paying attention.
Over time, it can start associating your bed with:
⥠frustration
⥠anxiety
⥠wakefulness
⥠clock-watching
Instead of sleep.
This is why some people with chronic insomnia tell me they fall asleep more easily on the couch than in their own bed.
If youâve been awake for around 20 minutes, the recommendation is simple:
Get out of bed.
Do something calm and quiet in dim light until you genuinely feel sleepy again.
Then return to bed.
Another game changer?
Wake up at the same time every morning, even after a poor nightâs sleep.
Consistency helps retrain your internal body clock.
Save this for the next 3am wake-up.
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