10/14/2026
Feeling like you just can’t cope anymore? Like the things you used to handle without thinking suddenly feel overwhelming?
During perimenopause and menopause, resilience can be influenced by a combination of hormonal, psychological and lifestyle factors.
Some of the factors linked with lower resilience include:
1. Lack of self-compassion
It’s hard to feel resilient when you’re constantly frustrated with your body or criticizing yourself for not coping the way you used to.
2. Not understanding what’s happening
When you don’t understand why your body, mood, sleep or energy has changed, it can leave you feeling powerless and out of control.
Knowledge can change that.
3. Feeling overwhelmed by change
Perimenopause can bring changes to your body, sleep, relationships, work and sense of identity.
Feeling like you have no control over what is happening can make symptoms feel even harder to manage.
4. Chronic stress
If your stress levels are already high, hormonal changes may make coping feel even harder.
5. Low self-efficacy
This is essentially the belief that you can handle what is coming.
When that belief drops, resilience can drop with it.
6. Hormonal changes
Fluctuations in oestrogen and progesterone during perimenopause may also influence mood, stress responses and resilience.
So if you’ve been thinking:
“Why can’t I cope anymore?”
It may be worth asking a different question.
“What has changed that is making coping harder?”
Because resilience isn’t simply about trying harder, being more positive or getting better at managing stress.
Sometimes you need better information. Sometimes you need more support. Sometimes you need to address sleep, stress, mood or hormonal symptoms. And sometimes you need to stop blaming yourself for struggling with something that has genuinely changed.
And if you’re struggling to work out whether what you’re experiencing is stress, burnout, perimenopause or something else, book an appointment via the link in bio.