09/02/2026
Ever feel like you're one wrong load of laundry away from losing it completely?
That white-hot flash of rage in midlife isn't random.
In Chinese medicine, we look at this through the lens of Liver Qi. The Liver is in charge of the smooth flow of energy and emotion through the whole body. When life keeps you stuck (in a job that drains you, a relationship that's run its course, a version of yourself you outgrew years ago) that energy doesn't just disappear. It stagnates.
Stagnant Liver Qi builds pressure. And pressure has to go somewhere. Often it rises, what we call Liver Yang rising, and shows up as irritability, snapping at your kids over nothing, a short fuse, or that feeling like you're one push away from exploding.
Here's the part I really want you to sit with: hormones can absolutely pour fuel on this fire. Estrogen shifts in perimenopause and menopause make everything feel more intense. But hormones aren't the root cause of the rage itself. They're the accelerant, not the fire.
The fire is whatever you've been avoiding looking at.
So before reaching for "it's just my hormones," I'd invite you to ask: what am I actually stuck in? What have I been tolerating that I no longer have room for? Rage is information. It's your body's way of saying something needs to change, and it's worth listening before it boils over.
If you are in Maryland, and this is you, comment CALL and I will send you a link to book a discovery call... Before you end up truly reaching your boiling point.