06/20/2026
Some practical ways to advocate for yourself during labor
1. Know your preferences ahead of time
- Think about pain management options, who you want present, mobility during labor, monitoring preferences, feeding plans, and postpartum care.
- Consider creating a brief birth plan that highlights your priorities.
2. Learn about common procedures
- Understanding inductions, epidurals, fetal monitoring, assisted delivery, and cesarean birth can help you participate in decisions if they arise.
3. Ask questions
- When a procedure or intervention is suggested, you can ask:
- Why is this being recommended?
- What are the benefits and risks?
- What are the alternatives?
- Is this urgent, or do I have time to think about it?
4. Bring a support person
- A partner, family member, friend, or doula can help communicate your wishes if you're focused on coping with contractions.
- Review your preferences with them before labor begins.
5. Speak up about your needs
- If you're uncomfortable, in pain, confused, or concerned, tell your care team.
- It's okay to request clarification or ask for information to be explained differently.
6. Know that consent matters
- You generally have the right to receive information, ask questions, and consent to or decline recommended care, except in rare emergency situations where immediate action is necessary.
7. Trust your observations
- If something feels wrong or you feel your concerns aren't being heard, repeat them clearly and ask for further evaluation.
8. Stay flexible
- Advocacy isn't about refusing interventions; it's about understanding your options and participating in decisions. Sometimes plans change because of medical needs, and you can still be an active decision-maker.
A simple phrase many people find helpful is: "Can you explain my options and give me a moment to think about them?"