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I’m Rhonda, a Level 2 Astrologer trained with Debra Silverman and Moonologer.

Through astrology, I help you uncover your natural strengths, understand recurring patterns, and navigate life with awareness and self-compassion.

10/30/2026

Cosmic Weather | October 30, 2026
Mercury Square Mars in Scorpio — Pause Before You React

Have you ever said something in the heat of the moment and wished you could take it back?

Today’s astrology invites us to pay attention to the connection between our thoughts, our words, and our emotions.

🦂 Mercury in Scorpio wants to uncover the truth. It wants to ask the deeper questions, look beneath the surface, and say what others might be afraid to say.

🔥 Mars brings heat, drive, and the urge to act. When Mercury and Mars form a square, our thoughts can move quickly, our words can become sharper, and our need to be heard can overpower our ability to listen.

You might feel impatient. A conversation could touch a nerve. Something you've been holding inside may suddenly demand to be said.

But here's the invitation: Not every truth needs to be spoken in anger, and not every disagreement needs to become a battle.

There is a difference between speaking your truth and using your words as a weapon.

This energy can also be powerful when directed consciously. It can help you ask the hard questions, advocate for yourself, recognize what has been bothering you, and take action on something you've been avoiding.

The key is learning how to work with the heat instead of letting it control you.

✨ Your Cosmic Reflection

Before reacting today, ask yourself:

🔹 Am I trying to understand, or am I trying to win?

🔹 What feeling is underneath my frustration?

🔹 Can I speak honestly without needing to hurt, prove, or defend?

🔹 What would change if I paused long enough to choose my response?

💫 Your reminder: You can be direct without being destructive. You can stand up for yourself without tearing someone else down. And you can honor your anger without allowing it to make your decisions.

Sometimes the most powerful thing you can do is take a breath, get curious about what has been triggered, and choose your next words with intention.

Your voice is powerful. Use it consciously.

💬 Let's reflect together: When you're upset, do you tend to speak immediately, or do you need time to process before you can communicate clearly?

10/28/2026

COSMIC WEATHER | VENUS OPPOSITE CHIRON
♎ October 28, 2026 | 28°14′ Libra

💗 What if the places where you've felt rejected are also showing you where you need to love yourself differently?

Venus represents love, relationships, connection, pleasure, and the values we hold—including how we value ourselves.

Chiron represents our tender places. The old wounds that can shape how we show up in relationships, how we receive love, and what we believe we deserve.

When Venus opposes Chiron, something tender may surface.

Perhaps you notice where you work harder to be loved.

Where you stay quiet because you're afraid of upsetting someone.

Where you give more than you receive because, somewhere along the way, you learned that being needed was the same as being valued.

Or maybe an old feeling of rejection returns, reminding you of a place within yourself that still needs compassion.

But here's what I want you to remember:

Someone else's inability to meet your needs does not determine your worth.

This transit invites us to look at the difference between loving someone and abandoning ourselves to keep that love.

✨ Ask yourself:

Where am I seeking validation from someone else that I need to begin cultivating within myself?

Have I confused keeping the peace with being in a healthy relationship?

Can I express my needs without feeling guilty for having them?

What would change if I truly believed I was worthy of love as I am?

Healing doesn't mean you'll never feel hurt again.

It means you begin to recognize your patterns, respond to yourself with compassion, and make choices that honor who you are becoming.

You can be loving and still have boundaries.

You can desire connection and still speak your truth.

You can acknowledge your wounds without allowing them to define your future.

💫 Your reflection for today:

Where are you being invited to choose self-worth over self-abandonment?

Remember: You don't have to earn your worth by making yourself easier for everyone else to love.

10/26/2026

COSMIC WEATHER | SUN SQUARE PLUTO
♏ October 26, 2026 | 3°05′ Scorpio

Where are you trying to control something that is asking you to change?

The Sun represents our identity, our life force, and the person we're becoming. Pluto takes us beneath the surface—to the fears, attachments, and patterns that may be influencing us more than we realize.

When these two meet in a square, we may feel tension between the person we've been and the person we're being asked to become.

Something may feel uncomfortable.

A truth may be harder to ignore.

A situation that once felt manageable may reveal a deeper issue around control, trust, or power.

But here's the invitation:

You don't have to control everything to reclaim your power.

Sometimes we hold on because we're afraid of what will happen if we let go.

We hold on to relationships, old identities, expectations, or the need to have everything figured out.

But what if letting go isn't losing your power?

What if it's how you get it back?

✨ Ask yourself:

Where am I trying to force an outcome?

What am I afraid might happen if I loosen my grip?

Where have I given my power away by trying to control someone else's choices?

What part of my life is asking for an honest transformation?

Pluto doesn't ask us to change just for the sake of change. It invites us to look at what's happening underneath the surface and recognize what can no longer be ignored.

You don't have to react to every uncomfortable feeling. You can pause, get curious, and choose a different response.

Power isn't about controlling everything around you. It's about taking responsibility for what you choose within yourself.

💫 Your reflection for today:

What are you ready to release so you can step into a more authentic version of yourself?

10/25/2026

COSMIC WEATHER | FULL MOON IN TA**US
♉️ October 25–26, 2026 | 2°45′ Ta**us

What if the security you're searching for begins with trusting yourself?

The Full Moon in Ta**us invites us to slow down, get grounded, and pay attention to what truly matters.

Ta**us is the part of us that wants to feel safe. It values stability, comfort, pleasure, and the simple things that remind us we're here, we're alive, and we have something solid beneath our feet.

Under this Full Moon, we may become more aware of what we value—and whether the way we're living reflects those values.

Are you building a life that feels good on the inside, or one that simply looks good on the outside?

🌿 Ta**us asks us to consider:

✨ What genuinely makes me feel safe and secure?

✨ Where am I holding on to something simply because it's familiar?

✨ Am I giving myself permission to rest, enjoy, and receive?

✨ What am I ready to release so I can make room for something more aligned with who I am becoming?

A Full Moon brings something into awareness. It illuminates what may have been sitting quietly beneath the surface, ready to be acknowledged.

And with Scorpio season asking us to look deeper, this Ta**us Full Moon reminds us that transformation doesn't always mean making a dramatic change.

Sometimes transformation means choosing peace over chaos.

Sometimes it's recognizing that enough is enough.

Sometimes it's learning that your worth was never dependent on how much you accomplish, how much you give, or how tightly you hold everything together.

You are allowed to build a life that feels as good as it looks.

🌕 Your Full Moon reflection:

What are you ready to release, and what do you want to cultivate more of in your life?

Take a breath. Get quiet. Listen to what your body already knows.

You don't have to force the answer. Sometimes clarity comes when you finally slow down enough to hear yourself.

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10/25/2026

COSMIC WEATHER | OCTOBER 25–31

This week asks us to slow down, get grounded, and tell ourselves the truth.

🌕 The Full Moon in Ta**us reminds us to come back to what is real.

What makes you feel safe?
What do you truly value?
What are you holding onto because you think you need it?

Ta**us reminds us that sometimes the greatest form of security is learning to trust ourselves.

Then the Sun squares Pluto, bringing deeper questions around power, control, and transformation.

Where are you trying to control an outcome?

Where might you be ready to release your grip and choose differently?

✨ The Sun sextiles Lilith, inviting us to reclaim the parts of ourselves we've silenced or labeled as “too much.”

And Venus opposing Chiron may bring tenderness into relationships.

An old wound around worth, belonging, rejection, or being seen may surface.

But remember:

A wound showing up doesn't mean you've gone backward.

Sometimes awareness is the doorway to healing.

And as the week closes, Mercury squares Mars, reminding us to pause before reacting.

Before you send the text.

Before you say the thing.

Before you make the decision from a place of activation…

Pause.

Ask yourself:

💫 Am I communicating—or reacting?
💫 What is this emotion trying to tell me?
💫 What would it look like to choose myself without closing my heart?

This week's invitation:

Slow down.
Get grounded.
Tell yourself the truth.
And don't abandon yourself just to keep the peace.

✨ What is asking to become more real in your life?

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10/25/2026

Venus retrograde moves back into Libra.

Sometimes we have to go deep before we can see our relationships clearly.

Venus has been retrograde in Scorpio, asking us to look beneath the surface of love, desire, trust, intimacy, and self-worth.

We've been invited to examine the attachments we hold, the truths we avoid, and the places where fear may be influencing our choices.

Now Venus moves back into Libra, bringing our attention to relationships, balance, fairness, and the way we show up for one another.

And the questions become:

✨ Am I giving more than I'm receiving?

✨ Have I been compromising my needs to keep the peace?

✨ Am I being honest about what I want from my relationships?

✨ Can I create connection without abandoning myself?

Venus retrograde isn't necessarily asking you to end a relationship or make a dramatic decision. It's asking you to review, reconsider, and get honest about what love and connection really mean to you.

Libra wants harmony, but real harmony doesn't require you to disappear.

You can listen without losing your voice.

You can compromise without betraying yourself.

You can love someone and still have boundaries.

💫 Your reflection for today:

Where in your life are you being invited to create more balance between what you give to others and what you give to yourself?

Remember: You are part of the relationship, too.

10/24/2026

🦂 Mercury Retrograde in Scorpio — October 24, 2026

Time to slow down and look beneath the surface.

Mercury rules our mind, communication, decisions, and the stories we tell ourselves.

When Mercury turns retrograde in Scorpio, the invitation is to review, revisit, and reconsider.

Scorpio doesn't do surface-level.

This is a powerful time to ask:

🦂 What truth have I been avoiding?
🦂 What conversation needs another look?
🦂 What story am I telling myself that may no longer be true?
🦂 What needs to be understood before I move forward?

Mercury retrograde isn't about everything going wrong.

It's an invitation to slow down enough to notice what you may have missed.

And with Scorpio, what comes back up may be something you thought you were finished with.

An old conversation.

An old belief.

An old relationship pattern.

Instead of immediately trying to fix it, ask:

“What is this here to teach me?”

✨ Your Mercury retrograde practice:

Pause before reacting.
Ask better questions.
Listen for what isn't being said.
Give yourself time to process.

You don't have to have the answer today.

Sometimes the clarity comes after we've been willing to sit with the question.

🦂 What are you being invited to look at more deeply?

10/24/2026

☀️❤️ Sun Conjunct Venus — October 24, 2026

What do you love when you stop trying to please everyone else?

The Sun represents who you are—your vitality, identity, and what lights you up.

Venus represents love, values, pleasure, relationships, and self-worth.

When they meet in Scorpio, we're invited to bring more honesty to what we love and what we value.

Scorpio asks us to go beneath the surface:

❤️ What do I truly desire?
❤️ What feels meaningful to me?
❤️ Where am I settling for something that isn't authentic?
❤️ What am I ready to be more honest about?

This isn't about making something look good on the outside.

It's about asking:

Does this feel true on the inside?

With Venus retrograde, this can be an especially meaningful time to reconsider what—and who—we are willing to invest our energy in.

✨ Your invitation:

Choose what has depth.

Choose what feels honest.

Choose relationships and experiences that allow you to be fully yourself.

And remember:

Your values become powerful when your choices reflect them.

🦂❤️ What are you ready to choose more consciously?

10/23/2026

Sun Enters Scorpio — October 23

🦂☀️ Sun Enters Scorpio — October 23, 2026

Scorpio season says: go deeper.

The Sun represents our identity, vitality, and the part of us that wants to shine.

As the Sun moves into Scorpio, our attention turns toward what lives beneath the surface.

Scorpio isn't interested in pretending.

It asks:

🦂 What is really going on?
🦂 What truth am I ready to face?
🦂 What am I ready to release?
🦂 Where am I ready to transform?

This is a season for getting honest about our desires, our fears, our attachments, and the places where we're ready for something to change.

You don't have to have all the answers.

You just have to be willing to look.

✨ Scorpio wisdom:
What you are willing to feel, you are less likely to have to hide from.

This season invites us to trade surface-level answers for deeper truth.

To stop asking, “How do I make this look okay?”

And start asking:

“What is actually true for me?”

🦂 Your invitation this Scorpio season:

Go deeper.
Tell yourself the truth.
Release what has run its course.
Make room for what wants to transform.

The truth may not always be comfortable—but it can set you free.

10/20/2026

🦂❤️ Venus Square Pluto — October 20, 2026

What are you holding onto because you're afraid to let go?

Venus speaks to love, relationships, desire, values, and self-worth.

Pluto takes us underneath the surface—to the places where we may be holding tightly, protecting ourselves, or trying to control an outcome.

With Venus retrograde in Scorpio, this can bring some deep questions around relationships and what we truly value.

❤️ Where am I holding on too tightly?
❤️ Where am I trying to control instead of trust?
❤️ Where have I confused intensity with intimacy?
❤️ What am I afraid I'll lose if I let go?

Pluto doesn't ask us to pretend everything is fine.

It asks us to tell the truth about what is really happening.

Sometimes love asks us to go deeper.

Sometimes it asks us to release.

And sometimes it asks us to reclaim the part of ourselves we've given away.

✨ Your invitation:

Notice where you're feeling the pull of attachment, jealousy, fear, or control.

Instead of judging it, get curious.

What is this feeling trying to teach me about what I value—and what I need?

You don't have to force an ending.

You don't have to force a beginning.

You can simply become more honest.

And from that honesty, your next choice becomes clearer. 🦂

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