08/31/2026
What if we stopped making weight loss the goal of our life?
Why do we care so much about losing weight?
Why have we been taught to place so much of our value as women on how much we weigh, what size we wear, and what our bodies look like?
And why do we keep telling ourselves, “When I lose the weight, then I’ll be happy?”
What if we got happy first?
Because the truth is, being thinner doesn’t guarantee happiness.
What if, instead, we embraced our bodies through all of their shapes, sizes, seasons, and changes?
As women, our bodies are constantly changing—hormonally and beyond. And yet we’re often made to feel like every change is something we need to “fix.”
I’m starting to believe there is another way.
What if we focused less on diets and more on well-being?
On nourishing ourselves with whole, nourishing foods.
On getting stronger.
On moving our bodies because it feels good.
On asking ourselves: Am I actually hungry? Am I full? What does my body need right now?
That’s where intuitive eating comes in for me.
And meditation has helped me reconnect with that intuition in a profound way.
I’ve been meditating for 17 years in the Vedic tradition, and even though I still fall into the trap of dieting and longing for the thinner version of myself I used to be, meditation continually brings me back to my body.😴
It helps me slow down. Listen. Get grounded.🦋
And when I’m truly connected to myself, I don’t need to constantly look at a nutrition book or follow the latest diet to tell me what I should eat. I can begin to listen to what my own body is asking for.🍃
Maybe the goal isn’t to get back to the body we had 10, 20, or 30 years ago.🙏
Maybe the goal is to be present in the body we have now to have gratitude to it for carrying you. 🙏🤗
Maybe happiness is something we can cultivate right now.
For me, what matters more now is being strong, empowered, and healthy so I can live my best life moving forward.
Which includes kickboxing of course 🥊
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Meg Reynolds