01/31/2026
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A hill I am ready to die on:
You arenโt going to make progress in your healing journey without know how to regulate your nervous system and WHEN itโs crucial in your daily habits๐ซถ๐ป
Almost every women I coach doesnโt know theyโre daily habits are adding to the stress load in their own body
AND I didnโt know either before I became a RHN...
Because we are not taught how our bodies actually operate...๐
THE TOP 3 THINGS KEEPING YOU FROM YOUR GOALS:
1๏ธโฃ EATING WHILE DISTRACTED
Did you know that if you are distracted (watching TV, scrolling, standing, driving, etc.) and not in a seated position, your body doesnโt actually know that youโre eating...
That means your digestive system wonโt actually enter your digest state & digest your food properly = stress on the digestive system ( imagine someone threw a water balloon at you without warning you - now your soaking wet because you werenโt prepared to catch a water balloon )
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SHIFT: Practice mindful eating with no distractions.
2๏ธโฃ SHALLOW BREATHING
Most people donโt actually know how to breathe properly... consistently.
Shallow breathing (short, up in the chest & paused) signals the sympathetic nervous system (ALERT/STRESS MODE). A lot of people are shallowing breathing all day long, keeping you in an alert state because you arenโt giving the body enough oxygen.
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SHIFT: Strengthen self-awareness & adjust your breathing throughout your day. Breath is one of the most powerful forces in the human body, use it mindfully.
3๏ธโฃ NEGATIVE SELF-TALK
When we speak words aloud, our subconscious doesnโt know if something is real or not. The more your brain hears what you are saying about yourself, it sparks & reinforce that belief in your subconscious.
Eventually this looping negative self-talk about YOURSELF becomes an internal threat = stress signal
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SHIFT: When you notice yourself using negative self-talk, stop yourself. When you feel those thoughts surfacing, just donโt say them out-loud.
Send this to yourself or someone you care about as a loving reminder๐๐ฆ๐บ