06/29/2026
There are moments when I feel frightened to publish my book about the power and perils of mindfulness for brain injury.
People-pleasing parts of me are afraid to share this message. They shout at me sometimes as I write these words. They warn me: “Don’t say that. You will offend your teachers who have taught us so much! Mindfulness teachers won’t understand the nuance, girl. They will just feel attacked! People will get mad at you! They will vilify you publicly! Clinicians may scoff and say: ‘Who are you to tell us to modify our prescriptions?’”
But then the parts of me that felt so ashamed and frightened when I was first learning step forward. They shout back: “If we don’t say anything, others will suffer as we did! They will feel weak and wrong too. We can’t let that happen!
In the end, the parts of me that feel compelled to share this message, to protect fellow survivors, have won out over the parts that are afraid to speak up.
I hope my book convinces people of the importance of pacing the practice appropriately. The Mindful Concussion Method is akin to a First Responder. It is not about leaning away from the hard stuff forever. It is about knowing when and how to lean in. It is rooted in the recognition that survivors need to feel Safe and Settled before Sinking into their Suffering.
DO YOU GET AFRAID SOMETIMES TOO WHEN SHARING YOUR TRUTH?